It's just become so uncomfortable to discuss because it looks like this.
Newcomers to discussion showing even an ounce of trans acceptance must be immediately pounced on before their views are even stated.
Trans accepting people on these discussions must have their thoughts deliberately misunderstood and be accused of awful things like the discerning silent observer (and I have no doubt there are many) can't see through that immediately. Moderate views are also the wrong sort of views. We must use any means to shut down common sense arguments.
It's not just trans women who aren't the right sort of women.
Anyone supportive of tran women is no longer the right sort of women.
Trans men? when they are mentioned... Well we ought to ignore them except to say, they are women really... But they also go in the wrong sort of women box because, there are only right women and wrong women now. Right women, wrong women and men who cannot be trusted anyway and don't get an opinion.
Trans people have started a war by existing. Maybe they could have a little more acceptance if they would just denounce those with extreme views instead of just trying to quietly live their lives as if that's proof enough they are harmless, law-abiding citizens.
Also, we must get it all correct straight away. By this we mean, nothing can change. At all. Ever.
All trans people cannot change sex, therefor they must stay in the box they were placed in with the labels we agree with. Ie, trans women are men and trans men are (the wrong sort of) women. We have no problem how they dress and what sort of pronouns they use but we reserve the right to point at them if they don't look right and not use their pronouns when it suits us. No spaces can be created to accommodate them. All the medical terms about anatomy are strictly devided into male and female and trans people either deal with being the gender we tell them they are or don't get the help they need. As women we are defined by words, not deeds, not how we express ourselves and our gender and not individuality
Of course we do accept trans people though. That's obvious right?