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Deliberate and orchestrated silencing of trans rights supporters on GN

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GagaJo Fri 25-Mar-22 22:01:21

As the usual posters on trans threads know, I support trans rights and also self-label as an intersectional feminist.

The irony of that statement however, is that after the first few posts on the threads that deal with trans issues, I invariably more or less step away from them, other than the occasional comment. There are quite a few other posters that do the same. I could name them, but that would be inappropriate. The reason that we do this is due to the animosity and personal insults that are bandied about, towards those of us that support trans equality. No doubt, the same things will happen on this thread.

The point of this thread, therefore, is to show, publically, that despite the orchestrated attacks from gender criticial feminists, that there are still a good number of us that do not take that position.

To anyone that reads these threads but is too intimidated to join in for the reasons given above, I'm just saying, we are still here!

Doodledog Mon 28-Mar-22 20:25:15

Maybe not, but (a) I'm being upfront, not snarky, and (b) I was talking about the neutral observers - obviously I couldn't possibly comment on the opinions of 'the opposite side' smile.

GagaJo Mon 28-Mar-22 20:59:31

Fair enough. Nice to be civil ??

Mollygo Mon 28-Mar-22 21:10:57

I’ve appreciated the more civil approach of the OP side. I thought it would be just as appropriate to have opened a thread entitled Deliberate and Orchestrated silencing of female rights supporters on GN. The attacks on AHF supporters appear more deliberate and less willing to concede anything, using ideas like , ‘I don’t wish harm on females’ but without being willing to agree safe spaces for AHF should remain.

VioletSky Mon 28-Mar-22 21:17:06

Except that's not true Mollygoand you are lumping us into one basket which is where the OP comes in.

Not listening to what people actually say is effectively silencing them

Mollygo Mon 28-Mar-22 22:01:52

I can think of one post without even looking for it, which ‘qualified’ the keep safe spaces for women by adding “if needed”.
So who is the arbiter of whether they are needed or not? The AHF who need them? Or someone else?
If I ask on here if safe spaces for AHF should be kept or set up ie needed without any further qualification.

How many posters would say yes there should be safe spaces for AHF?

How many would say, no there is no need for safe spaces for AHF?

How many would hedge and haver by adding ‘if’ or terms under which they feel the safe spaces are needed?

What would you answer? Yes? No? or hedge?

VioletSky Mon 28-Mar-22 22:16:53

You are reading something into it that's not there....

I've always agreed women should have safe spaces.

Whether or not that includes trans women is not my business. I wouldn't tell victims of trauma who they should share spaces with during recovery

Doodledog Mon 28-Mar-22 22:24:52

Predictably, I would say that yes, we need single sex spaces. I suppose I would qualify that slightly, as I don't think we need to separate by sex all the time - mostly it doesn't matter.

I think they should be there when women feel vulnerable - so when they are undressed, when they are distressed, ill, incapacitated and so on, and when they would be at a disadvantage because of a sex-based strength differential. We don't need single-sex libraries or cake shops, but we do need single-sex hospital wards and prisons. We definitely need sex-based sports, and where an Arts event is intended to celebrate women, I would argue that a common-sense approach is needed, with the benefit of any doubt falling on the side of keeping it to females. As I said on another thread, something like a poetry event to celebrate womanhood could include a poet who lives as a woman, but not one with a beard and a misogynist attitude. It is sometimes nuanced, but the Herstory debacle most certainly wasn't!

Mollygo Mon 28-Mar-22 22:26:13

VS Not listening to what people actually say is effectively silencing them.

Not reading what people actually say is effectively silencing them.

I didn’t ask about women because by some patriarchal juggling, that word now has to include males.
my post, which you evidently didn’t read so I’ll post it again said,

If I ask on here if safe spaces for AHF should be kept or set up ie needed without any further qualification?

How many posters would say yes there should be safe spaces for AHF?

How many would say, no there is no need for safe spaces for AHF?

How many would hedge and haver by adding ‘if’ or terms under which they feel the safe spaces are needed?
Or twist my words to suit their purpose?

What would you answer? Yes? No? Hedge? Twist?

VioletSky Mon 28-Mar-22 22:30:29

Trans people should be able to do sport and they should be able to participate in events celebrating their journey to womanhood.... And journey to manhood if that's a thing

I think sports can be organised fairly otherwise we wouldn't have the paraolympics

I think a trans person's journey to becoming their authentic selves is worth celebrating and they deserve their place in history too

Galaxy Mon 28-Mar-22 22:34:10

Your place in history is meaningless if you are a man beating a woman. Its similar to me winning the under 8 s sack race.

Urmstongran Mon 28-Mar-22 22:36:11

Go Galaxy go!! We’re rooting for you.

Galaxy Mon 28-Mar-22 22:38:04

Having reflected on it and my current physical condition, it might not be wise to put any money on it.

VioletSky Mon 28-Mar-22 22:38:23

Galaxy I meant literally history, where trans people have existed for a long time. They aren't a new phenomena

Galaxy Mon 28-Mar-22 22:39:24

Ive got completely distracted by the sack race now VS grin

Doodledog Mon 28-Mar-22 22:39:46

Galaxy

Your place in history is meaningless if you are a man beating a woman. Its similar to me winning the under 8 s sack race.

Perfectly put, Galaxy.

Even I would have a chance at winning at sport if I competed against the primary school 2nd reserves.

Zoejory Mon 28-Mar-22 22:44:02

Trans people should be able to do sport and they should be able to participate in events celebrating their journey to womanhood

I'm happy for trans people to play whichever sport they like.

However, in competition it just isn't fair .

How would you feel if your granddaughter had spent years cycling. Training. Hours of dedicated hard work. How would you feel if a trans person decides to compete and knocks your granddaughter out of a place? Would you think it fair?
It's happening right now

www.marca.com/en/more-sports/2022/03/27/62407cdd268e3e6b0d8b45c6.html

Critics say Bridges could leave some current Olympic medallists out of the strong British team but she says she is complying with the current rules.

I suppose that's OK with you, VS?

VioletSky Mon 28-Mar-22 22:44:32

I think under 8s in a sack race might suprise you, some of them are savage competitors

Coastpath Mon 28-Mar-22 22:50:30

I rarely comment on these threads, but I have spent the last few days thinking exactly what Galaxy and Zoejory have said here.

Mollygo Mon 28-Mar-22 22:51:41

Thank you so much
And there we have it! The answer is . . . Hedge or Twist. I can take that as read from the previous post, though I am sorry I didn’t include can’t answer as an option.

Mollygo Mon 28-Mar-22 23:06:46

Galaxy and Zoejory, I am in complete agreement, and so, I think we’d find, are most trans people.
I can’t believe, no, I just find it hard believing that anyone on here thinks that being trans means they lose their sense of honour or their acknowledgement of the harm that some trans are doing in the name of transpeople.

VioletSky Mon 28-Mar-22 23:10:24

Mollygo

Thank you so much
And there we have it! The answer is . . . Hedge or Twist. I can take that as read from the previous post, though I am sorry I didn’t include can’t answer as an option.

Mollygo please stop telling me what I think when I have clearly answered you.

Its the 4th time in 2 days and a clear demonstration of why the OP is justified.

Just because I'm not personally bothered about sharing a refuge with a trans person doesn't mean I ask that other traumatised women share them. Never have, never will. Trauma isn't something that can be turned on or off to suit others, I respect that and they can have whatever space they need to heal, if that's cis women only that's fine by me.

You must know that not all women in refuges would mind a trans women being there (coming from someone who lived in one for a year) you just won't allow them a voice.

Mollygo Tue 29-Mar-22 01:51:27

No you haven’t answered. You simply twist words to give the answer you want.
A clear indication of why it would be justified to put ‘deliberate silencing of female rights supporters.’
You never read/comprehend how many times posters have said that not all TW are harmful and that females need protection from those who are.
However, I have read your posts. I have asked you about safe spaces for females. You only choose to answer about women.
TW cannot be female, ergo you haven’t answered yes or no to the question, simply hedged, by adding more words and twisted by changing the words I used.
I was warned.

VioletSky Tue 29-Mar-22 07:13:12

Mollygo

Sorry that's ridiculous.

It's now the language I use?

I said "cis women", same thing

I think what I think, some things I agree with others on and some things I don't and I'm certainly not ashamed to be honest about that and there is no logical reason not to be.

I don't need your approval or your vote or anything from you at all.

So what you are saying makes no sense

VioletSky Tue 29-Mar-22 07:49:43

Also, what does "I was warned" mean?

tickingbird Tue 29-Mar-22 07:53:05

I’m just wondering if there will ever be any trans men competing against males in any physical sport? Hmm….doubt it!