Trisher, no matter how much you may want it to be true, Transwomen are not female.
Some insist on saying Trans Women Are Women, I find that rude.
I truthfully point out Trans Women Are Transwomen!
I dare say some find that rude although I don’t see how, as it’s as true as the other version.
Only because of the stupidity of a man who wanted it all his own way back in 2004 are some people really confused about ‘woman’ not being female.
As for keeping it polite? Don’t make me laugh!
How is it polite for at least one poster to answer every question I ask about females, by substituting the word ‘woman’? It shows incredible biological ignorance and really bad manners, as does continuing to use the word cis when people have asked a poster not to do so because they find it offensive!
And no I don’t have to make all my judgements on gender. That’s a TGV statement. When children come into school
they are registered m or f. Even those parents who have decided that their 4 year-old girl already wants to be a boy, and we allow that, have to register them m or f.
When a TW appears as a male in a female mental health ward or in the communal changing rooms I judge him to be m.
When I catch sight of a fabulously costumed person on Ru Paul as I flip through the channels to find David Attenborough(m), I judge the fabulous costumed person to be a male.
In circumstances which don’t require me to decide, I don’t make a judgement at all.