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Given their backgrounds are all so bad, I would think that nothing could be better for them than a spell in a appropriate institution, where the regular time tables and discipline of prison life could begin to give them all their background different, whilemeducational opportunities, where they cannot bag off classes and must take a disciplined attitude and go to all classes whether they like it or not, could be the making of them.
Having sadly had a young relative of mine in prison I can assure you that where this person was:
- there were no regular timetables - they were mostly just stuck in their cells.
- educational opportunities!? - you jest!
The only education they received (and they taught themself) was in how to avoid getting done over by the drug dealers who ran the prison. Seriously - the prison officers were in thrall to these people ... ?getting backhanders to turn a blind eye? Some of the threats to the prisoner from the drug dealers were in the form threats to family (my family) outside the prison - the prison governor knew this and did nothing at all - the drug dealers are too powerful.
During this person's stay in prison, all the family (including little ones, who drew pictures) wrote encouraging letters, saying we are rooting for you, we want you to get through this and put it all behind you and live a good life, we are here for you etc. When did they see them? - on the day they left when they were put into a box of belongings. Throughout that time, no cards or letters were received. Just stuck in a box.
It was the most astonishing eye-opener for all of us. The prison system is on its knees. There was no rehabilitative or educational aspect at all; no proper medical care; no protection from violence or drug pushers.
The only people who have helped our relative to pick up life now are a voluntary organisation that was found by chance - the probation officer had not even heard of them, even though they are local - and have a 0% re-offending rate, compared with the statutory services' 64%.
Let us hope that this young woman will received the help she needs in a way that does not expose her to the sort of criminals who will bribe and threaten and teach her criminal ways.
Anyone who is under the illusion that the prison system might achieve anything in the way of rehabilitation for this woman is not living in the real world. And who can blame them? - no-one tells you how it really is. I am telling you now.