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Why not Rosie51? We talk about what will happen at our own funerals or what we want done when we go. Or we discuss our own parents deaths, how we will cope and what they have told us they wish to have done (or if not, what we envisage).
Why is the Queen so sacrosanct? From one angle, she is just a very elderly woman.
However, from my perspective, it is the effect on the country I was considering. We will feel her loss. Those rising up in power behind her are not her equal. The period of transition will be... challenging (if that is the right word?).
I think discussing our own or family funeral arrangements is fine, but doubt we'd want them publicised with the neighbours and other strangers chiming in. I know the plans for the Queen's funeral have been in place for decades and that they are updated and revised from time to time. I just don't think these plans and adjustments need to or should be aired publicly, there's no need for us to know until they are to be enacted. That's not making the Queen sacrosanct, that's affording her the same consideration as anybody else. I know I wouldn't want all and sundry frequently discussing what will happen when I die, I think I'd find it depressing to say the least.