Funerals

If the crematorium is closed, its down to the local authority. Nothing the funeral directors can do about it. An inconvenient truth.

The problem here lies with the local Councils . The Crematoria and graveyard workers are Council employees. All Council staff and departments, with the exception of emergency services - i.e. the skeleton staff who would normally cover weekends and Bank Holidays, will be closed. Care workers will continue to work normally but the registration of Deaths and funeral facilities will be closed as they are every Sunday. and Bank Holiday.

As others have pointed out, it’s been declared a Bank Holiday, which explains why, unfortunately, some funerals will be cancelled.

I’d like to know details of all these people supposedly arrested for holding ‘different views’

I’m just relieved that my mother’s funeral was on Monday 12th and went ahead as planned. We could so easily have chosen the next week as there were problems about fixing the date so that everyone could attend, except my daughter in New Zealand, who eventually said ‘don’t worry about me, I won’t come, you’re having too much trouble getting a date that the others can attend,’ She sent a message instead which was read out at the funeral by my lovely niece. It all went very well and I hope the Queen’s funeral goes well too. I feel very sorry for any family faced with waiting even longer for their family member’s funeral, it will be very distressing for them. A family death is very distressing whoever you are, the Queen, my mother, or anyone else’s family member.

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And she sent the most beautiful flowers to me, with a simple card reading ‘Thinking of you.’
We had a family wreath so no other flowers, these beautiful flowers were just for me.

Normally Bank Holiday dates are known well in advance and funerals, civil weddings, etc. are not booked for those dates. However, there was no advance warning for this Bank Holiday, which has meant that arranged ceremonies have been cancelled and will have to wait a while for an available slot. So upsetting/insensitive for the families involved. I do feel that an exception should have been made for already booked ceremonies.

The National Association of Funeral Directors made an announcement on social media amid speculation.

It read: "We've been asked if any other funerals will go ahead on Monday 19th September. Although work is still ongoing, some funerals will go ahead, others are moving to a different date - led by the needs & wishes of the bereaved families involved.

"^Most funeral services booked for 19 September will have been arranged many weeks ago, so funeral directors and cemeteries/crematoria are working with families to find the best approach for each one^."

From MissA's link so there is nothing official and it's not an order from on high.
No need for outrage, it is up to the families to decide with the funeral directors.

Granny23

Normally Bank Holiday dates are known well in advance and funerals, civil weddings, etc. are not booked for those dates. However, there was no advance warning for this Bank Holiday, which has meant that arranged ceremonies have been cancelled and will have to wait a while for an available slot. So upsetting/insensitive for the families involved. I do feel that an exception should have been made for already booked ceremonies.

Sensible post, Granny23. I agree with you.

I'm sure that is happening in some cases, Granny23, depending on the area.

Our local Co Op is saying that funerals planned for the 19th will go ahead, unless families want things altered.

Why are people seeking to downplay paddyanne's upsets, and even say that its all been done in agreement with the family?

Have some respect.

I’d like to know details of all these people supposedly arrested for holding ‘different views’

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No-one said that volver.

They are saying it is not an order, it seems to be localised and not an order as portrayed in the OP.
Some funerals are still going ahead, why that of her dear friend is not must be a decision taken locally for some reason.

She's right, this is nothing like North Korea.

No-one said that volver.

I quote: No need for outrage, it is up to the families to decide with the funeral directors. Who said that again? Oh yes. I recall.

It doesn't matter who made the decision to close the crematorium. Someone, somewhere decided to close the crematorium because of "respect", and paddyann is upset about it.

Everything else that you think is just speculation.

Sorry for jumping in paddyann

volver why are some crematoria closed then?

I have no idea.

Maybe I'll ask my BiL who runs a crematorium.

Or maybe I won't bother ??

Why not?

Because he's quite busy running a crematorium.

paddyann54, although it's upsetting for you, I'd say it's been cancelled simply due to uncertainty about the availability of staff, considering the bank holiday and many people's arrangements for the Queen's funeral. I lost my closest friend at the start of the pandemic (March 2020) and there was no funeral at all.

MaizieD

Granny23

Normally Bank Holiday dates are known well in advance and funerals, civil weddings, etc. are not booked for those dates. However, there was no advance warning for this Bank Holiday, which has meant that arranged ceremonies have been cancelled and will have to wait a while for an available slot. So upsetting/insensitive for the families involved. I do feel that an exception should have been made for already booked ceremonies.

Sensible post, Granny23. I agree with you.

I agree with you as well Granny23.

Germanshepherdsmum

It’s a bank holiday. Surely crematoria staff, undertakers and clergymen are just as entitled as other working people to take that day off if they wish. Of course it will be a major inconvenience for many, as will the cancelled medical appointments and operations. Blame the people involved in the cancellation of the funeral if you must, but to describe it as the ultimate act of entitlement is both very wrong and very disrespectful.

Just not the undertakers and clergymen facilitating the Queen's funeral though?

I think it's appalling that the funeral should be cancelled/postponed at such short notice, though, obviously, not the late Queen's fault.

I presume the emergency services and carehome workers will be working as usual? I think that other essential workers should be required to work too.

I know it's A Moment in History but if it had been up to me I would sooner have watched the moment on catch up than do this to a bereaved family.

Ailidh

I think it's appalling that the funeral should be cancelled/postponed at such short notice, though, obviously, not the late Queen's fault.

I presume the emergency services and carehome workers will be working as usual? I think that other essential workers should be required to work too.

I know it's A Moment in History but if it had been up to me I would sooner have watched the moment on catch up than do this to a bereaved family.

Its a bank holiday...crematorium staff are not emergency services...they get the usual bank holidays...so they will get this one....I'm classed as essential worker ( Nurse) but I'm not emergency services, I dont work Mondays...so I will get hours added to my leave to take at a later date ....its the same for much of the public sector....certainly not the queens fault

volver

^Blown up into a Press Headline?^

Or a person's actual experience? Read the OP.

GSM - Bank Holidays don't work that way in Scotland.

If I hear the word "disrespectful" again I may scream.

Yes, I sad I would be very cross if it happened to my family.

But if you read my post you would have seen that it’s purely a local decision. Or a Country one if it was made by the Scottish Government.

Did you see where I posted that the NAFd said no direction had been given to their members.

As you said Read the post

It seems very odd that when the decision not cancel the funeral was made by aScottish funeral director, a Scottish Crematorium, a Scottish council or the Scottish government the anger is t directed at them, the people responsible ?