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Missing people and the Police

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62Granny Tue 07-Mar-23 12:45:54

We have had an incident in our area over the weekend , where 5 young people (20s& 30) had gone missing on a night out and no contact by any of them had been made since the early hours of Saturday morning, the family reported them missing later on Saturday but once again the Police dismissed their concerns saying they were young and "partying" and would come home when ready even going as far as to tell one of the mothers to stop phoning. Unfortunately they were found to have had a car accident with the car leaving the road and going in some undergrowth but this wasn't found until early hours of Monday morning by which time 3 had died. Why are the Police ignoring families concerns these days? I really feel they are not looking after the public anymore and I have family who are in the Police. So sad for the parentsšŸ’šŸ’”

Sammz21 Tue 07-Mar-23 21:06:27

Delila

Can phones be checked for approximate location, eg by ā€œpingingā€ a nearby mast, or is that only on tv dramas? If it can be ascertained that five phones are silent & stationary for a long period near a very busy main road, wouldn’t it be a good idea to check the situation, given that 5 people were reported missing.

The phone data from their phones will show the cell phone tower their phones last 'pinged' from.
However, this covers a wide radius, thus, it will not give the exact location.
However, it would certainly narrow down the search area.
It just seems such an unfortunate set of circumstances. 🌻

Chardy Tue 07-Mar-23 21:11:17

Five young people missing for 48hrs before they're found. And yet a Lancashire woman disappears and a manhunt ensues.
I want to think positively about the police. However when I read yesterday that the police ignored the murderer of Sarah Everard exposing himself, when the staff gave them a description of his car including the reg number AND details of the credit card used and the name of the owner, I wonder if somehow judgements based on stereotypes are being employed.

VioletSky Tue 07-Mar-23 21:40:46

Blame is often something that is misplaced, this is emotional, a lot of us have children or grandchildren out in cars living life.

While I think that this should have been looked into as soon as it was realised 5 young people had all gone dark at the same moment...

It is also an accidental tragedy and I don't necessarily blame the police for this.

The police are underfunded and undermanned.

In order for them to be able to not have to prioritise case loads so much, the time and manpower needs to be there doesn't it.

That just won't bring any comfort to relatives if it is found out that anyone could have been saved if found sooner

I am considering asking my children to join some set of tracking app with me with a promise only to use it for emergency.

Wyllow3 Tue 07-Mar-23 22:00:17

The tragedy lies partly in the fact that had they been just a few years closer to the road, they would have been found very quickly. But in the absence of information about which direct they had gone in, only a full on helicopter search of a huge area could have done the job. With the information given, was this a realistic expectation given all the other events happening that night?

I'm appalled at whats coming out about sexism and racism in the police, I feel angry, I feel there was/are in some places a collective OTOH I was treated very well when I needed help and called police to my home and it was young men.

But I cant really see how it relates to this incident.

In rushing to blame the police, it might hurt the families more than they might imagine.

Information on the state of the driver and others will come out at a PM: and inquest: which will now be a source of media interest. The remaining two, instead of a quiet recovery and help grieving, could be subject to all kinds of media attention.

Wyllow3 Tue 07-Mar-23 22:10:37

Yards not years in opening line.

VioletSky Tue 07-Mar-23 22:14:52

I was trying to explain that I wasn't blaming

Just feeling for the family

Wyllow3 Tue 07-Mar-23 22:31:39

That came across.

I'm afraid they have brought down consequences they never could have intended by making it so public..

Delila Tue 07-Mar-23 23:19:41

Thanks Sammz2, that’s interesting. Perhaps the police did eventually look into the phone location data to search in that general area?

Yes, unfortunately they may have taken a while to piece together disjointed information coming from various families.

Delila Tue 07-Mar-23 23:20:34

Sorry, Sammz21

Callistemon21 Tue 07-Mar-23 23:35:40

Delila

Thanks Sammz2, that’s interesting. Perhaps the police did eventually look into the phone location data to search in that general area?

Yes, unfortunately they may have taken a while to piece together disjointed information coming from various families.

The police were searching in the area on foot but it has been reported that it was a member of the public who found the car, apparently.

Delila Wed 08-Mar-23 00:00:32

Yes, I read that too Callistemon21.

Forsythia Wed 08-Mar-23 08:57:16

I’m puzzled by this. Were they all reported missing at the same time? Or was it a case of the mothers reporting their daughters missing as one of the mothers has said the men were strangers. Perhaps nobody realised 5 were missing at first. That may have influenced things.

Katie59 Wed 08-Mar-23 09:02:23

We have the find my phone app on our phones it tracks within a few yards if there is a phone signal. I can even track my brother and sister in the US which is interesting because brother travels a lot, his company relocates him week by week.

Grantanow Wed 08-Mar-23 11:03:29

There is a fast-growing tendency to bash the police for any and every perceived failing regardless of the facts and resources as a result of a very small number of high profile cases. It makes for lots of easy-to-write newspaper and social media copy and TV punditry. Policing needs improvement but let us not forget police resources are stretched and ultimately determined by this Tory government.