Dinahmo
It seems to me that the more one tries to explain one's situation, the more many of think that there is a problem with our lives for some reason. Reading a lot into a few words.
Of course, and many reasons probably, Deflection from reality, green eyed monster, go figure.
This thread is not about anyone who has chosen, or had to, for any reason, leave the UK. It is about the UK and its citizens, who have been lied to and been deceived- and who are suffering the consequences. And about their children and grand-children who will pay a much heavier price.
Snap election coming up? Or just 1 year to wait- and big changes will be afoot. I believe Starmer will try and improve the relationship with the EU, and will probably fail. And then? When the % of the electorate who is clearly very unhappy with the hard Brexit we ended up with, and the massive damage inflicted on the country and individuals, will request a re-think.
The generation that voted for Brexit is dying off, slowly but surely. And young people who made the huge mistake not to vote, are truly hacked off, and won't make that mistake again.
As you say, it will be time to go forwards, and find ways to sort this mess out.
Just as 'project fear' has become 'project reality', this will come to pass too.
In the meantime, leave you to it.