The examples given are one offs, and one offs can be 'racist' but bear no comparison with day in, day out racism and discrimination in multiple settings- which have a cumulative effect over many many years- and can trigger strong reactions- not because of that particular event, but because of the cumulative aspect.
Unless you have close friends and family who have experienced this, you probably would not really be aware or understand.
One month, or one gig - is not going to give you a true picture of what it feels like when it happens over years and years, on a regular and repetitive basis.
Are you irritating in RL? (light hearted)
Rats like my apple trees. Advice?
