Iam64 please read what I have written, and not what you think I have written. I have not said the balance of power has gone too far ( I said it needed redressing) I have not said 'it is responsible for these behaviours', I have not dismissed the appalling figures for domestic violence, rape,and murder, I think Lawrence Fox's comments are deplorable, and I resent your saying that I am 'wrong' about statements I have not made. Having several men of all ages in my close family I have at times felt sympathy because they - being gentle men, brought up to treat everyone with respect, regardless of sex or age, have sometimes felt on the receiving end of harsh blanket criticisms, much as have many young women. I have over the past years in both work and society come across women whose general attitude to men is far from good, and if you haven't met any it doesn't mean they don't exist.