I have always thought and said that when you leave school or when you are 18 then there should be a basic check line. so if you have your temperature, weight blood pressure etc checked so that later there is a base line to check against if you were suddenly ill etc , so it should be important for everyone to make the simplest will. Of course at 18 ish you will not have a lot of money etc to leave. However , as I have personally seen, in the terrible moment when a child is killed in an accident, to add to the grief and sadness no one knows what they wanted or would have chosen to do. Personally, I do not want to be forced into donating organs , I CHOOSE to do so, it is the small gift I can give. So if y ou have stated what you want to happen and if you have beliefs, wishes for your funeral etc then it is so important and such a help in a terrible time. when my husband died his corneas were donated and I received a letter telling me that two people now had sight because of this. It was a small cheering thought in a sad time and he was such a lovely person I knew he wanted to do this. So if we all began working life with this in place the natural thing would be to update it as life went on. That way you ensure your wishes are followed and you remain in charge of what happens. As I have lived my life being in charge of my own financial and health etc ., I have no intention of letting someone else decide after I have died!! So common sense is make a will, but do it properly. Solicitors make more money from sorting out badly written wills which can end up with little left after the charges are paid. More importantly I believe is to have a power of attorney. This is so important if you lose capacity to make decisions, whether this is from something like dementia or a stroke or an accident or whatever. If you do not have this then in such a situation it is a major problem for the person trying to look after your affairs and they can have to justify the simplest thing they may want to buy for your benefit. Of course it is to safeguard against someone misusing your money etc but my friend had to deal with her aunts care and the aunt refused to give any PoA and consequently my friend had to spend a lot of time and also money to have everything she did vetted by the public guardian or whatever they are called now. Every penny had to be accounted for so suppose she wanted to buy a small tv for her aunt in the home she had to still go through all the rigmarole and of course the cheap price or special offers would have gone by the time it was all sorted. So if you care only about the money even, then stay in charge of your own life and make sure you have got both done . (I hasten to add I am not a solicitor nor have any involvment in this apart from intending to remain the stubborn b minded person who will be in charge of my own life as long as I can,!!)
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