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Lady Gabriella Windsor’s husband Thomas Kingston died from ‘catastrophic’ head wound.

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Urmstongran Fri 01-Mar-24 15:20:42

Tragic to hear this 45y old was found dead at his parents Cotswold out building on Sunday with a gun by his body. Such a shock to read this I had been assuming a heart attack or similar.

Condolences to all his family.
RIP Mr. Kingston.

Whethertomorrow Fri 01-Mar-24 17:21:04

Such a tragic story. I feel so sorry for his wife and family.

Unfortunately they will have the added burden of the carrion crow press speculating endlessly on why. Every word and action will be dissected and have judgement pronounced on them.

At least on gransnet we are offering only sympathy and compassion.

Joseann Fri 01-Mar-24 17:34:15

Tragic for all concerned. RIP

Jaberwok Fri 01-Mar-24 18:32:13

Oh dear, how very dreadful. Poor man and poor, poor family. Absolutely shocking.

eazybee Fri 01-Mar-24 18:38:48

Tragic.Dreadful for his family.
A man who appeared to have everything to live for.

Primrose53 Fri 01-Mar-24 19:45:31

Truly sad news. May he RIP.

merlotgran Fri 01-Mar-24 19:54:30

I thought it was very brave of Prince and Princess Michael of Kent to attend the memorial service. They must have been shell shocked!

merlotgran Fri 01-Mar-24 19:55:30

Maybe a wrong choice of words but you know what I mean.

Urmstongran Fri 01-Mar-24 19:56:27

Of course we do merlotgran.

Kandinsky Fri 01-Mar-24 21:05:35

So terribly sad.

I worked with a man who took his own life.
He was only early 40’s & left a wife & 2 young boys.

I wish we could do more for people suffering so much that they think death is the only answer. It’s so sad.

Oreo Fri 01-Mar-24 23:19:36

Very tragic, and in his parents own garden too, how they must be feeling☹️

MissAdventure Fri 01-Mar-24 23:43:09

Thanks for that link, lemsip.
I wasn't sure who he was, or any of the background.

Terrible tragic, poor man.
It doesn't bear thinking about, finding your own child like that.

Esmay Sat 02-Mar-24 04:38:38

When I first read that Thomas Kingston had died I thought how tragic to die at such a young age and a heart attack came to mind .
On reading that he'd taken his own life - I was shocked .

I've known two men , who committed suicide and both of them well educated , accomplished and relatively privileged coming from well heeled middle class backgrounds .
I'd seen both of them the day before and it shook me to the core .
One thing that they both shared : they cared deeply about other people and felt powerless to help them despite being in caring professions .

We don't know how Thomas really felt about life and what finally tipped him over the edge .
I pray for his wife and family .
RIP Thomas .

Curtaintwitcher Sat 02-Mar-24 06:30:56

Many of us envy those in the upper classes, but one of the drawbacks is the expectations which people have of you. Sometimes you just can't live up to those expectations. I'm not saying that this is what happened in this case, but having wealth and status doesn't guarantee success.
The saddest thing about this is the publicity. Bad enough to lose a loved one in this way without it being so public.

Nicenanny3 Sat 02-Mar-24 07:59:23

Very sad but no one knows what goes on behind closed doors or in people's minds.

maddyone Sat 02-Mar-24 08:24:13

Such sad news. His poor young wife, married for such a short time.

luluaugust Sat 02-Mar-24 08:30:06

So sad for his family, may he RIP

Sparklefizz Sat 02-Mar-24 08:45:37

My heart goes out to the family left behind with the emotions and thoughts they will have to deal with now. May he RIP.

M0nica Sat 02-Mar-24 19:12:44

It is not so much what goes on behind closed doors, but what is going on in someone's mind, remains unknown to all those around, even their nearest and dearest, unless they talk about it.

Hels001 Sat 02-Mar-24 19:20:16

So very sad. I wonder from reading lemsips post if he was suffering from PTSD? It certainly wouldn't surprise me after what he'd been through. Such a sad loss for all concerned.

Allsorts Sat 02-Mar-24 19:25:21

So very sad, on the surface everything going for him. It’s a waste of a life. If only he had talked to someone, there’s nothing that can’t be fixed.

Anniebach Sat 02-Mar-24 19:26:16

Some things can’t be fixed

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 02-Mar-24 19:38:12

We don’t know what was troubling him so we can’t speculate about how it could have been fixed. I beg to disagree with you Annie despite your tragic experience.

SusieK Sat 02-Mar-24 19:43:14

Allsorts

So very sad, on the surface everything going for him. It’s a waste of a life. If only he had talked to someone, there’s nothing that can’t be fixed.

I agree.
there’s nothing that can’t be fixed

Casdon Sat 02-Mar-24 19:44:21

It can’t be fixed unless the person tells somebody else how desperate they are feeling. I’ve known two men who committed suicide, one in his thirties and one in his forties. In both cases nobody, including their wives, had any idea how they were feeling, both of them were functioning apparently normally both at home and at work, and confided in nobody at all. The shock afterwards was quite devastating for everybody who knew them.

Anniebach Sat 02-Mar-24 19:44:58

Some things can’t be fixed