I’m sure you will enjoy the programme Urmston. It even made me laugh despite my lack of respect or affection for him
Yes Iam I loved the programme (not quite finished but nearly). A very intelligent, kind man I think. He’s a people pleaser that’s for sure.
I knew and was close to a family similar (well, not the domestic violence) to that which Boris grew up in. All 3 kids farmed out to private schools in Malvern, both parents super intelligent - dad had a PhD in something highly sought after and worked abroad for many years earring ridiculous amounts of money.
Their kids looked feral when home (which of course was when I saw them). Unbrushed hair, mismatched shabby clothes with wellington boots, climbing on tables (reminded of that by Boris doing similar when not liking sister Rachel getting all the attention on her 4th birthday). They had books galore (natch), were all clever - one became a barrister, one worked in Silicon Valley but do you know what? They were all unhappy in their own ways. One child later took their own life. They competed and clamoured for parental attention and I found them loveable but exhausting to be around to be honest.
We had much less in our home when I would get back on the train - money, intelligence, status. But do you know what? I used to get home and feel blessed with our life. Perhaps a bit boring by comparison - not much in the way of theatre and the arts, little in the way of wonderfully expensive family holidays - these kids took planes like ours would take buses! Our girls were very sporty, playing all over England for our county which I felt ‘rounded out’ their personalities. Exercise in adolescence mixed with hormones was, we felt, a Good Thing. Plus being together every morning and evening which those kids missed. I don’t think a good school makes up for that. Great education but at the cost of personal relationships. In my humble of course.
So - nature or nurture? An interesting question.
An insightful look into Boris’ foundations for sure. So many times he pitted himself against Cameron - Brexit being the biggie I suppose. Possibly his heart wasn’t in it as much I I thought. Give was right. When the result came out Boris partied hard (think Bullingdon Boys). Presbyterian Gove wanted to get on with The Plan. He sussed him before I did.
Tell you one thing - if Boris should come back there’s no way Cameron will be Foreign Secretary! Small mercies?
Apologies. I’ve wittered on here! I’m not very good at being succinct.
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