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How did we get BoJo as PM on Channel 4

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Grantanow Thu 07-Mar-24 09:45:30

Don't miss the Channel 4 documentary at 9 pm on the Rise and Fall of BoJo. Last night's first episode was remarkable and that's an understatement.

Wheniwasyourage Fri 08-Mar-24 11:42:26

Witzend

Wheniwasyourage

Learning something off by heart is not the same as understanding it, or being able to translate from English into Ancient Greek! Those take a bit more intensive work.

Wasn’t his degree in Classics, though? So presumably he must have been reasonably adept at translating both ways.

Well, maybe he actually did some work at university, hard though that is to believe. It was a school teacher who commented on his laziness, after all,

Sparklefizz Fri 08-Mar-24 13:18:31

I wouldn’t marry him and I wouldn’t vote for him but I think he’d be good fun and entertaining at a party. While watching the programme, every time he gives that cheeky smile, I find myself smiling back at the tv.

Callistemon21 Fri 08-Mar-24 13:31:30

Sparklefizz

I wouldn’t marry him and I wouldn’t vote for him but I think he’d be good fun and entertaining at a party. While watching the programme, every time he gives that cheeky smile, I find myself smiling back at the tv.

Oh yes, he was good at parties, wasn't he. 🎉🎊🎈🥂🍾
Such fun!

He went to several when the rest of us couldn't even meet our loved ones.

Katie59 Fri 08-Mar-24 13:33:33

He is a clown a buffoon he promises the world to all and sundry, including his women but doesn’t deliver, then lies as an excuse.
Because he is a “good communicator” gullible voters want to believe him, he’s a “good bloke”. Scratch below the surface and he is a seducer, saying whatever it takes to get his way.

Sparklefizz Fri 08-Mar-24 13:37:17

I know … but he wasn’t the only one. Even Saint Keir was seen with a beer in his hand enjoying a gathering. My neighbour who was nursing in a Covid ward still ignored the rules and had a noisy party. When questioned about it, she said she thought that nurses were entitled to let their hair down!

MayBee70 Fri 08-Mar-24 13:46:57

Sparklefizz

I know … but he wasn’t the only one. Even Saint Keir was seen with a beer in his hand enjoying a gathering. My neighbour who was nursing in a Covid ward still ignored the rules and had a noisy party. When questioned about it, she said she thought that nurses were entitled to let their hair down!

Does that make it right? And Keir, unlike Johnson, was cleared of any wrong doing.

Cossy Fri 08-Mar-24 13:51:08

Sparklefizz

I know … but he wasn’t the only one. Even Saint Keir was seen with a beer in his hand enjoying a gathering. My neighbour who was nursing in a Covid ward still ignored the rules and had a noisy party. When questioned about it, she said she thought that nurses were entitled to let their hair down!

I just love “whataboutery” This thread is about Johnson, start a thread about “Saint” Starmer if you like!

Cossy Fri 08-Mar-24 13:58:45

Callistemon21

I don’t like what I know about Stanley Johnson, he sounds like a horrendous bully. But Johnson had siblings who didn’t turn out like he has. As for his “deafness” you make so much of, I believe he had to have grommets fitted several times during his childhood, not nice but many children go through this.

As for being packed off to Boarding School, I wouldn’t have chosen to do this with any of my children, but thousands of British children do go to boarding school, including many children of parents in the services, so do they all turn into lying narcissists?

Despite having issues with his hearing as a young child and a horrible Dad he enjoyed a very privileged upbringing.

Cossy Fri 08-Mar-24 14:03:39

Iam64

I’m no fan of Mr Johnson. I’d be fascinated by a good psychological assessment . His childhood was far from ideal. He was the oldest child, close to his mother and witnessed abuse from his father to mother.
He craves excitement, is easily bored, he’s impulsive and shines as the centre of attention. He seems like his father, unable/unwilling to be faithful to his current partner or wife
He was very entertaining on HIGNFY and totally unsuited to be PM
I’m sure you will enjoy the programme Urmston. It even made me laugh despite my lack of respect or affection for him

He was great on HIGNFY! If he’d not entered public office, I might still enjoy watching him.

Iam64 Fri 08-Mar-24 14:21:18

The very idea of comparing the booze fests at Downing street during full lock down with Starmer having a beer with his working tea when restrictions allowed for that would be funny - except it really is not

MayBee70 Fri 08-Mar-24 14:22:08

Cossy

Iam64

I’m no fan of Mr Johnson. I’d be fascinated by a good psychological assessment . His childhood was far from ideal. He was the oldest child, close to his mother and witnessed abuse from his father to mother.
He craves excitement, is easily bored, he’s impulsive and shines as the centre of attention. He seems like his father, unable/unwilling to be faithful to his current partner or wife
He was very entertaining on HIGNFY and totally unsuited to be PM
I’m sure you will enjoy the programme Urmston. It even made me laugh despite my lack of respect or affection for him

He was great on HIGNFY! If he’d not entered public office, I might still enjoy watching him.

I agree. It took me a long time to dislike him because of that. But, as some people from the Conservative Party said to me pre referendum, the trouble with the party at the moment is it’s just led by journalists. At the time I didn’t really understand what they meant by it but I do now.

Cossy Fri 08-Mar-24 14:28:45

Iam64

The very idea of comparing the booze fests at Downing street during full lock down with Starmer having a beer with his working tea when restrictions allowed for that would be funny - except it really is not

No but it is only to be expected for some!

Grantanow Sun 10-Mar-24 09:19:55

Very seductive in more ways than one. Failed to get a First at Oxford and obviously hopeless at detail. He must never be given high office again.

Allsorts Sun 10-Mar-24 09:29:18

I feel for anyone who had such dreadful parenting, he’s made a bit of a car crash of his own parenting skills and relationships, wonder how his children view him. It explains a lot, two children bought up the same environment react differently to the same circumstances , played out in many families. I do think he’s a one off, is patriotic, clearly lives this country, , chaotic probably but well meaning and very intelligent in lots of subjects. I think his Churchillian speech to announce lockdown could not have got the message home better, so he’s a conundrum to me, I enjoyed the programme and think maybe he will be back..

maddyone Sun 10-Mar-24 10:08:44

Grantanow

Very seductive in more ways than one. Failed to get a First at Oxford and obviously hopeless at detail. He must never be given high office again.

So everyone who didn’t get a first at Oxford is not intelligent?

Joseann Sun 10-Mar-24 10:45:13

maddyone

Grantanow

Very seductive in more ways than one. Failed to get a First at Oxford and obviously hopeless at detail. He must never be given high office again.

So everyone who didn’t get a first at Oxford is not intelligent?

grin oh well!

maddyone Sun 10-Mar-24 11:03:54

That’d be me too Joseann 😂

pascal30 Sun 10-Mar-24 11:08:56

He has charm which is rare, and he has always been fullof bonhomie in public which of course made him very popular.. he also had an air of lost child about him which women responded to,, but I think his need to win was his downfall and over rode any advice from his staff and colleagues. The fact that he was undecided about whether to Leave or Remain but almost on whim decided to go with Leave sickens me. It seemed a very personal fight against Cameron. I think the programme showed (and I appreciate it may not be true) his craving for attention which has always been somewhat at odds with his rather chaotic yet solitary personality.. a very complex man who IMO is much better suited to being a journalist rather than being responsible for others wellbeing as a politician

Grantanow Sun 10-Mar-24 11:18:18

No. I was merely pointing out that BoJo fell behind people like Douglas Hurd and David Cameron. Several people who achieved high office got Seconds at Oxbridge including Mrs Thatcher. Currently 19% of our MPs attended Oxbridge.

Urmstongran Sun 10-Mar-24 11:40:57

I’m sure you will enjoy the programme Urmston. It even made me laugh despite my lack of respect or affection for him

Yes Iam I loved the programme (not quite finished but nearly). A very intelligent, kind man I think. He’s a people pleaser that’s for sure.

I knew and was close to a family similar (well, not the domestic violence) to that which Boris grew up in. All 3 kids farmed out to private schools in Malvern, both parents super intelligent - dad had a PhD in something highly sought after and worked abroad for many years earring ridiculous amounts of money.

Their kids looked feral when home (which of course was when I saw them). Unbrushed hair, mismatched shabby clothes with wellington boots, climbing on tables (reminded of that by Boris doing similar when not liking sister Rachel getting all the attention on her 4th birthday). They had books galore (natch), were all clever - one became a barrister, one worked in Silicon Valley but do you know what? They were all unhappy in their own ways. One child later took their own life. They competed and clamoured for parental attention and I found them loveable but exhausting to be around to be honest.

We had much less in our home when I would get back on the train - money, intelligence, status. But do you know what? I used to get home and feel blessed with our life. Perhaps a bit boring by comparison - not much in the way of theatre and the arts, little in the way of wonderfully expensive family holidays - these kids took planes like ours would take buses! Our girls were very sporty, playing all over England for our county which I felt ‘rounded out’ their personalities. Exercise in adolescence mixed with hormones was, we felt, a Good Thing. Plus being together every morning and evening which those kids missed. I don’t think a good school makes up for that. Great education but at the cost of personal relationships. In my humble of course.

So - nature or nurture? An interesting question.
An insightful look into Boris’ foundations for sure. So many times he pitted himself against Cameron - Brexit being the biggie I suppose. Possibly his heart wasn’t in it as much I I thought. Give was right. When the result came out Boris partied hard (think Bullingdon Boys). Presbyterian Gove wanted to get on with The Plan. He sussed him before I did.

Tell you one thing - if Boris should come back there’s no way Cameron will be Foreign Secretary! Small mercies?

Apologies. I’ve wittered on here! I’m not very good at being succinct.
😁

Primrose53 Sun 10-Mar-24 11:45:35

Grantanow

Very seductive in more ways than one. Failed to get a First at Oxford and obviously hopeless at detail. He must never be given high office again.

High Office? Look at Angela Rayner with her one NVQ (known by many as Not Very Qualified 😉) in Care.

icanhandthemback Sun 10-Mar-24 12:04:11

I never thought that BJ should be Prime Minister but I think that quoting from a school master a tad unfair. If you looked at what was in my reports or my son's reports, we'd have been written off as failures. Similarly, my very bright daughter who had glowing reports is and was a totally different person from what the school observed.
What we experience as children is ingrained into our brains and it takes somebody quite emotionally astute to realise that they cannot continue to act according to that. Sadly, I don't think Boris is emotionally aware. I actually quite like his funny side but politically I agree he is a disaster. Whilst I might enjoy his company, I'd run a mile from a closer relationship with him.

Iam64 Sun 10-Mar-24 12:08:58

Good reflections there urmston. I’m always curious about personality and how it develops, combination of life experience and genetics imo. Johnson is always interesting and often infuriating

Primrose53, give it a rest. The point is Johnson was expected by his famiky friends and himself to get a first. He didn’t because he’s not a details man, he didn’t put the effort in. Angela Raynor had a much more difficult childhood than Johnson. Sneering at NVQ’s says a lot about you. Angela Raynor was her mother’s carer. She’s made a successful career. I admire her for that. It’s what we want for other disadvantaged people

Urmstongran Sun 10-Mar-24 12:30:04

Thank you Iam. Actually a bit more upon reflection….

Boris was severely castigated for leaving his second wife (? Marina) and 4 older children after years of marriage to be with Carrie.

Anyone else picked up that Marina was originally The Mistress herself? Boris left his first wife and baby. Then married Marina who was six months pregnant at the time.

Sisterhood my a*rse!

Suzieque66 Sun 10-Mar-24 12:34:10

Why did people like him.... he's like Trump .... Are people just stupid ! .... He is a fat, schemer who cant even control his hair !!!
How did the MP's think he was a person to lead the Tory Party ... He was a Donkey leading other stupid Donkeys ....Braying at the Moon ...