I wonder what would happen if situations were reversed? How many of us older women, were we to be displaced by war to Ukraine, would have picked up enough Ukranian in a short space of time to be able to cope in hospital.
I volunteer teaching English to refugees in an informal setting. Our learners are mostly from Afghanistan, Syria and Ukraine. Among the older women, there is sometimes resistance to wanting to learn very much English other than the basics to get by. They come along, often with their daughters who are more receptive to learning a new language. The older women say they want to go home as soon as possible. Their longing for their homeland is palpable. They worry that becoming too involved with English culture will make it harder for them to return, especially as younger members of their family become more integrated.
Many writers have described how difficult it is to lose one’s first language. Here are some examples:
longreads.com/2022/02/24/disappearing-language-a-reading-list-on-losing-your-native-tongue/
I could not agree more with what you write, Siope. Some people on these boards need to learn some compassion and walk a mile in someone else’s shoes.
“We are killing like we haven’t killed since 1967”


