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Is JK Rowling pushing the boundaries too far?

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RosiesMaw Tue 02-Apr-24 13:31:14

digitaleditions.telegraph.co.uk/data/1662/reader/reader.html?social#!preferred/0/package/1662/pub/1662/page/3/article/NaN
Well pigeons, cat and among , but with reference to the particular examples she instances I am team JK.
Scotland is digging a massive hole for itself with regard to so-called “hate crime” and if it wasn’t that 1984 was 40 years ago I’d say it had arrived.

JenniferEccles Fri 05-Apr-24 09:45:09

RosesMaw😆!
Brilliant!

Callistemon21 Fri 05-Apr-24 09:48:06

RosiesMaw

^Actually Glorianny unless the man identifying as a women has had their Adam’s Apple shaved it is relatively easy to spot them^
Prominent genitals are also a giveaway even if the leggings are pink!.

👏👏👏

Mollygo Fri 05-Apr-24 09:49:21

RosiesMaw

^Actually Glorianny unless the man identifying as a women has had their Adam’s Apple shaved it is relatively easy to spot them^
Prominent genitals are also a giveaway even if the leggings are pink!.

👏👏👏

Glorianny Fri 05-Apr-24 09:50:14

GrannyGravy13

RosiesMaw

Actually Glorianny unless the man identifying as a women has had their Adam’s Apple shaved it is relatively easy to spot them
Prominent genitals are also a giveaway even if the leggings are pink!.

👏👏👏

So are we imposing a dress code on people? You must expose your throat or wear leggings which expose the shape of your genitals. (Never heard of a Prince Edward apparently)
Are we banning polo necks?

Callistemon21 Fri 05-Apr-24 09:53:37

Glorianny

GrannyGravy13

RosiesMaw

Actually Glorianny unless the man identifying as a women has had their Adam’s Apple shaved it is relatively easy to spot them
Prominent genitals are also a giveaway even if the leggings are pink!.

👏👏👏

So are we imposing a dress code on people? You must expose your throat or wear leggings which expose the shape of your genitals. (Never heard of a Prince Edward apparently)
Are we banning polo necks?

Oh dear.

Have you not seen some of the photos of more aggressive, misogynistic men masquerading as women?

Well, of course you have!

Glorianny Fri 05-Apr-24 09:54:31

Mollygo

Glorianny, what you’re saying in all your different twisting, is that men, whether or not they are TIM, have the right to do whatever they want, even when its detrimental to females, and women don’t.

Fortunately, there are females who do care and will continue to work on that.

If you and others choose to support misogynistic males, under the guise of supporting TIM, it’s sad. You could equally put all your efforts into showing those TIM who choose to cheat, lie and offer violence to females AND damage the image of TIM, that what they are doing is wrong (I presume you do think cheating, lying and violence of any kind is wrong).
Except that, like the Humza Yousef, there is the fear that it’s impossible-so better not to try.

Once again trying to tell me what I think.
Of course you are the only women who care.
Apart of course from caring about any woman who cares to disagree with you then you simply resort to abuse

GrannyGravy13 Fri 05-Apr-24 09:54:36

Glorianny

GrannyGravy13

RosiesMaw

Actually Glorianny unless the man identifying as a women has had their Adam’s Apple shaved it is relatively easy to spot them
Prominent genitals are also a giveaway even if the leggings are pink!.

👏👏👏

So are we imposing a dress code on people? You must expose your throat or wear leggings which expose the shape of your genitals. (Never heard of a Prince Edward apparently)
Are we banning polo necks?

Nobody is mentioning banning anything Glorianny just pointing out the blatantly obvious…

Mollygo Fri 05-Apr-24 09:57:42

No Glorianny. I’m just reading what you say.
Unless you say things you don’t think,
I’ve no idea what you think,

Glorianny Fri 05-Apr-24 09:58:27

GrannyGravy13

Glorianny

GrannyGravy13

RosiesMaw

Actually Glorianny unless the man identifying as a women has had their Adam’s Apple shaved it is relatively easy to spot them
Prominent genitals are also a giveaway even if the leggings are pink!.

👏👏👏

So are we imposing a dress code on people? You must expose your throat or wear leggings which expose the shape of your genitals. (Never heard of a Prince Edward apparently)
Are we banning polo necks?

Nobody is mentioning banning anything Glorianny just pointing out the blatantly obvious…

But if I can't see the throat and I can't see if there is an Adam's apple I can't tell. I need the evidence I'm told makes transwomen easy to identify. We'll have to ban polonecks, or insist anyone wearing them also wears pink leggings. I'm not sure what to do about the possibility of a Prince Edward, but I'm sure those who know will tell me grin

Callistemon21 Fri 05-Apr-24 10:01:05

Mollygo

No Glorianny. I’m just reading what you say.
Unless you say things you don’t think,
I’ve no idea what you think,

I know what I think.

Of course, we can't see one another.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 05-Apr-24 10:06:13

Glorianny what is the relevance of a Prince Edward or even a Prince Albert piercing got to do with this thread?

Glorianny Fri 05-Apr-24 10:06:53

Mollygo

No Glorianny. I’m just reading what you say.
Unless you say things you don’t think,
I’ve no idea what you think,

So explain to me how wanting to see a law on misogyny which protects all women is in any way saying
that men, whether or not they are TIM, have the right to do whatever they want, even when its detrimental to females, and women don’t.
In fact I'm saying entirely the opposite. That anyone abusing or mistreating a woman because they are a woman would be guilty of misogyny. If you can't see that this protects all women that isn't my fault.
I'd argue that the view that transwomen cannot be victims of misogyny simply reinforces misogynistic attitudes and means that all women are less protected.

Glorianny Fri 05-Apr-24 10:09:57

GrannyGravy13

Glorianny what is the relevance of a Prince Edward or even a Prince Albert piercing got to do with this thread?

Sorry it is a Prince Albert - never good on royal names. They were of course specifically used to hide the genitalia of Victorian gentlemen in tight trousers. I just think that claiming genitals always show in pink leggings ignore their usage. So perhaps they'd have to be banned to help identify transwomen.

Doodledog Fri 05-Apr-24 10:12:45

Glorianny I don't really expect an answer, but if, as you say, women's spaces are protected, please can you explain what they are being protected from and why, and also what does 'women's space' mean in the absence of a sex-based definition of 'women'?

Glorianny Fri 05-Apr-24 10:13:10

Callistemon21

Glorianny

GrannyGravy13

RosiesMaw

Actually Glorianny unless the man identifying as a women has had their Adam’s Apple shaved it is relatively easy to spot them
Prominent genitals are also a giveaway even if the leggings are pink!.

👏👏👏

So are we imposing a dress code on people? You must expose your throat or wear leggings which expose the shape of your genitals. (Never heard of a Prince Edward apparently)
Are we banning polo necks?

Oh dear.

Have you not seen some of the photos of more aggressive, misogynistic men masquerading as women?

Well, of course you have!

Well of course I have but I thought we all agreed that they are not representative of the average transwoman. Are you now saying they all dress like that? Because I can assure you they don't.

Callistemon21 Fri 05-Apr-24 10:14:07

I'm sure you can.

Glorianny Fri 05-Apr-24 10:20:05

Doodledog

Glorianny I don't really expect an answer, but if, as you say, women's spaces are protected, please can you explain what they are being protected from and why, and also what does 'women's space' mean in the absence of a sex-based definition of 'women'?

You've had the answer so many times Doodledog you know the legislation. But I'll try to be patient. Here it is again
As a link]
publications.parliament.uk/pa/cm201719/cmselect/cmwomeq/1470/147010.htm#:~:text=The%20third%20exception%20(Schedule%203,protected
And so you don't have to click

Exception allowing single sex services to discriminate because of gender re-assignment

The third exception (Schedule 3, paragraph 28) allows providers of separate or single-sex services to provide a different service to, or to exclude, someone who has the protected characteristic of gender reassignment. This includes those who have a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC), as well as someone who does not have a GRC but otherwise meets the definition under the Equality Act 2010.

Application of this exception must be objectively justified as a means of achieving a legitimate aim. An example given in the explanatory notes to the Act is that of a group counselling service for female victims of sexual assault where the organisers could exclude a woman with the protected characteristic of gender reassignment if they judge that clients would be unlikely to attend the session if she was there.

Schedule 23, paragraph 3 of the Equality Act 2010 also allows a service provider to exclude a person from dormitories or other shared sleeping accommodation, and to refuse services connected to providing this accommodation on grounds of sex or gender reassignment. As with paragraph 28 and other exceptions under the Equality Act, such exclusion must be a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.

Rosie51 Fri 05-Apr-24 10:21:59

Glorianny

Rosie51

Good post Dickens, but as Doodledog says it's all an attempt at derailing. When you raise transwomen or men with DSDs competing in women's sports Glorianny offers up a plethora of other problems that should be sorted out before that's considered. Women's needs always, but always take relegation behind men's wants.

I raise what are real problems which a simplistic attitude ignores. Like the problems of black women raised as women in countries with less developed health systems who are then banned from competing and told they are men. Something you find acceptable but the majority of black people do not.
Or the transman in the US forced to compete in a female sport because his state designates your classification by your birth sex. Apparently he just shouldn't compete.
Why do you pretend to have all the answers? Is it possibly because your simplistic attitude ignores a huge number of concerns which you are actually afraid to look at, never mind answer?

Athletes who have a DSD that meant they were raised as female when they are actually male with functioning internal testes and have gone through male puberty with all its advantages aren't banned from sport. They are perfectly able to compete in their correct sex class. The problem is that while they are very successful against females they likely won't enjoy the same success against their fellow males. Why do you think female athletes of any colour should have to accept such unfairness? Are you unaware that black female athletes are also disadvantaged, or don't those black people matter?
A simple one off cheek swab will eliminate any such problems with DSDs in the future but you have opposed this cheap, hardly invasive procedure. I have said I feel sympathy for anyone who makes this discovery, but sympathy shouldn't endorse what is effectively cheating. You take the opposite view and would allow a male to carry on defeating females.
I don't pretend to have all the answers at all, I just have one very cheap, very simple answer to one problem ie identifying whether an athlete is male or female so they can compete in their own sex class.

As for the US transman, that's up to the state and their rules. If they're taking testosterone which is a banned drug for any other athlete I don't think they should be competing at all. I'm for the same rules for everybody, not exceptions for very special people.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 05-Apr-24 10:24:15

Glorianny

GrannyGravy13

Glorianny what is the relevance of a Prince Edward or even a Prince Albert piercing got to do with this thread?

Sorry it is a Prince Albert - never good on royal names. They were of course specifically used to hide the genitalia of Victorian gentlemen in tight trousers. I just think that claiming genitals always show in pink leggings ignore their usage. So perhaps they'd have to be banned to help identify transwomen.

They are both piercings of the penis.

Glorianny Fri 05-Apr-24 10:27:36

Rosie51

Glorianny

Rosie51

Good post Dickens, but as Doodledog says it's all an attempt at derailing. When you raise transwomen or men with DSDs competing in women's sports Glorianny offers up a plethora of other problems that should be sorted out before that's considered. Women's needs always, but always take relegation behind men's wants.

I raise what are real problems which a simplistic attitude ignores. Like the problems of black women raised as women in countries with less developed health systems who are then banned from competing and told they are men. Something you find acceptable but the majority of black people do not.
Or the transman in the US forced to compete in a female sport because his state designates your classification by your birth sex. Apparently he just shouldn't compete.
Why do you pretend to have all the answers? Is it possibly because your simplistic attitude ignores a huge number of concerns which you are actually afraid to look at, never mind answer?

Athletes who have a DSD that meant they were raised as female when they are actually male with functioning internal testes and have gone through male puberty with all its advantages aren't banned from sport. They are perfectly able to compete in their correct sex class. The problem is that while they are very successful against females they likely won't enjoy the same success against their fellow males. Why do you think female athletes of any colour should have to accept such unfairness? Are you unaware that black female athletes are also disadvantaged, or don't those black people matter?
A simple one off cheek swab will eliminate any such problems with DSDs in the future but you have opposed this cheap, hardly invasive procedure. I have said I feel sympathy for anyone who makes this discovery, but sympathy shouldn't endorse what is effectively cheating. You take the opposite view and would allow a male to carry on defeating females.
I don't pretend to have all the answers at all, I just have one very cheap, very simple answer to one problem ie identifying whether an athlete is male or female so they can compete in their own sex class.

As for the US transman, that's up to the state and their rules. If they're taking testosterone which is a banned drug for any other athlete I don't think they should be competing at all. I'm for the same rules for everybody, not exceptions for very special people.

Rosie51 if you can't see the harm caused when someone is raised as a woman then suddenly told she is a man then your lack of compassion astounds me. At least one woman has committed suicide because of this issue, which is, no matter how you choose to view it, a real and relevant issue of discrimination for black women. I don't feel I have the right to contradict the views of those women. You may.

Callistemon21 Fri 05-Apr-24 10:34:57

There's no point in going round in the same old circles, endlessly.

Is JK Rowling pushing the boundaries too far?

No, JKR is trying to stop the boundaries being pushed even further, trying to stop the tide of lunacy and misogyny that is invading our world with the aid of misguided politicians and people on social media who seem to have their own agenda to push.

We need to stand up and say "I am J K Rowling".

GrannyGravy13 Fri 05-Apr-24 10:36:02

I am J K Rowling

Galaxy Fri 05-Apr-24 10:44:51

I wish I was. She has more courage than I have. She is also funnier. smile

Smileless2012 Fri 05-Apr-24 10:45:37

No she isn't, and there isn't a 'too far' when it comes to ensuring that women and their rights are protected.

Rosie51 Fri 05-Apr-24 10:49:59

Glorianny How dare you question my compassion, I have total sympathy with anyone who makes such a discovery. It happens to others not just athletes and is as equally astounding, didn't you know? Should that really mean they be allowed to carry on denying any number of women their rightful success? You have no thought let alone compassion for the athletes who have dedicated their lives to training only to be beaten by somebody with an unfair advantage. For some this will mean college scholarships lost, their only path to further education. Does that not concern you?

Suicide is always a tragedy, but should the threat of it allow someone to override equity to others? In case you didn't know DSDs occur in all races and both sexes, it is not just a condition that affects black people. It's not discrimination against black women it's placing people in their correct competing category, they can carry on living as women in all other areas of life.