VioletSky
Oh I have shared my views on how to do that many many times
Unfortunately I was told that it's not up to women to resolve these issues and they shouldn't have to come up with solutions that protect everyone's rights so I gave up
Unfortunately I was told that it's not up to women to resolve these issues and they shouldn't have to come up with solutions that protect everyone's rights so I gave up.
Realistically VS - what do you expect women to actually do?
Starting from the premise that everyone is entitled to live a life free from abuse, assault and violence - which I believe those of us who are debating on here subscribe to; that no-one should be pilloried for being different; that everyone should have the human rights often talked about - everyone... even the shouty, aggressive TWAs should have those same human rights.
What are we - us women who have a belief - which is as valid as yours - to do?
Putting it in simple terms, for the sake of argument - we do not believe nor accept that a man with male chromosomes commonly known as the X and Y, can change himself into a woman. You have said that it shouldn't matter what is in one's pants, and to a degree you are right - some TW have had full genital construction surgery although I believe - the data is very difficult to quantify with any real accuracy - only a small proportion of TW go on to have such surgery (understandable when such surgery is expensive if paying privately, and difficult to get on the NHS, and pretty drastic either way).
So the majority of TW self-identify as women which means that what is in their pants is a penis. Even that doesn't matter so much as the fact that with or without a penis - their chromosomes are and will remain, male.
Where it does matter what is in their pants has been discussed endlessly on here, so I'm not going to bang on about it.
So it is men who are demanding that the status be turned on its head, and that women accept that if they say, or identity as women - we have to accept that they are in fact, women. And if we want to debate the matter - we do, after all, have a stake in this - we are labelled transphobic and nasty (by those like yourself) because we won't overturn what is scientifically understood about biology to accommodate those minority of men.
Can you not see the challenge? Can you not see that a problem which has not been created by women - a problem created by a minority of men - is presented to us as ours to solve? Basically and bluntly we are being told that transwomen should have the right to use our public toilets, changing rooms, and other private spaces - because they feel like women, and if we object that it's up to us to deal with the problem and work out how these men identifying as women can be accommodated.
This is a 'story' as old as the hills. Women being expected to accommodate men; their foibles, their weaknesses, their insecurities, fears, feelings. To some extent, feminism put a stop to this, but, we are still expected to "understand".
Why is this our problem - and again, what do you think women should do to protect "everyone's" rights - other than to fall silent, say OK, and shut-up?