Doodledog
I fully understand why RD has stayed.
What’s the alternative? To go somewhere where nobody knows what you stood for? That’s a long, hard climb.
For the sake of argument, imagine that GN is your board of choice? Maybe you don’t know any others. Maybe you just like it here, and feel at home. But ‘Some People’ disagree with you, and try to make you feel uncomfortable. They know that not everyone picks up on every nuance and they do the passive aggressive thing of pretending that you are just too sensitive.
You get lots of behind the scenes support (which is welcome), but most is saying that your supporters don’t want to come forward and speak up for you, as that would mean putting their own heads on the line. Understandable but frustrating.
Yes, you could go elsewhere, but an alternative is to stay and hope for the support of those who agree with you.
I know what I would do.
Perhaps you didn't realise, but there are women out there who are putting themselves on the line for this issue.
They are trying to get elected in local councils etc.
They are not connected with any of the top 4 parties, so it's very hard, in a very unfair environment, using their own savings as support.
Because, as you know if you take funding from gov. Etc. You are then open to pressure to conform to DEI, which is completely enthralled to the trans ideology.
I'm not especially keen on pillorying anyone especially RD.
But I feel it has to be understood, at some level hoping for a different outcome from an MP/political party or even an institution, such as the Gov.
which has a history of ignoring/conflating/discussing/reporting on, and still achieving nothing, is believing in hope over experience.
As I mentioned, ordinary women braver than I, have put their heads above the parapet.
No doubt most people do not know about them.
Why? Because the media, doesnt report on it. Why?
Some of these women, leading ordinary lives but with extraordinary courage, have been arrested for delivering leaflets (no other party was) which said nothing more than 'I'm here and I believe in safe spaces for women and children. Men cannot be women etc.
There is much more to say about the difficulties these women are facing, daily.
I applaud these women and hold them in higher regard than those who take an easier road when it is within their power to use their platform for the good of others.
It's at best frustrating to watch happening.
The trans ideology is tied up with curtailing free speech as well as rights for 51%of the population.
That's why imv we need to stop giving away what little power we have, by saying 'give them time' or 'I understand why etc.'
It seems illogical to me if we mean what we say.
Sorry for any irritating spelling or grammatical errors.