madalene
^Your husband is paying for your access to the NHS and other infrastructure^
I don’t understand this point of view.
We all contribute to the NHS and other infrastructures through the taxes we pay. For all but the poorest of pensioners, we’re still paying income tax, but we and others who no longer work in paid employment, or have never worked in paid employment, pay taxes when we buy things, when we pay council tax, when we buy a new car or a different house etc.
I don’t understand the idea that those who don’t work don’t contribute, but in any case, I thought the provision of health care, education, roads, and other infrastructure was part of a civilised society. As I said, we all contribute.
What’s not to understand? Yes, if you contributed to a pension that attracts tax, you are contributing via that tax, as you did via the contributions your work made to society when you did it.
If your pension does not attract tax you still contributed when working (both in tax and in the production of goods and services), and nobody in the UK* would expect you to work till you die.
If you have never contributed though, your pension is equivalent to a benefit paid by others, as was your access to the benefits of living somewhere like the UK, such as healthcare, education etc which you took without paying for.
Fine if you were unable to work for some reason, such as caring for the sick or disabled yourself (or other reasons - there is no point in listing them as in a welfare state like ours they are valid reasons for not working, and long may that continue to be the case), but if you just chose not to work because you wanted to stay at home how can you ‘retire’? What are you ‘retiring’ from?
‘Paying tax’ by spending someone else’s money is not possible. If I earn £10 and give it to my child as pocket money, who pays the tax on the ice creams (or whatever) they buy with it? If they want to spend it on saving pandas, who has to declare the gift aid to get the tax credit?
Clue - not the one ‘donating’ someone else’s money.
As I keep saying I am 100% fine with paying into a welfare state - I’d much rather that than see old people starving if their families can’t afford to feed them, or children from poor families denied an education- but I do object to paying in being optional (and even more when those who opt out sneer at the benefit claimants who can’t hide their dependency behind husbands or others who are supposedly paying ’their share’)
*If I can’t say ‘first world’ I will say ‘countries such as the UK’ tedious though it u it s to type🙄. I have friends in ‘countries other than the UK’ who genuinely don’t understand ’free’ education heath and pensions as they have to provide everything themselves. When I point out that here they are all paid for by those who work they are again aghast that workers are paying for non working people to do nothing.