00opsidia
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Oreo
I’m just aghast that he wasn’t stopped by church authorities long before he died.Also surprised that he was married, I assumed he was single.
It would partly depend on who knew I presume.
And what they knew, or thought they knew.
I dont see being married or not had anything to do with anything.
In the case of someone [not church related] who looked at things online he shouldnt have, his girlfriend and family had no idea.
Their lives have been shattered.
And changed. For specific reasons, they[dont think the girlfriend wants to anyway] are not allowed contact.
The man has moved out of the local area.
Yes, I know someone who was caught like that. Banned by the courts from being alone with his own child afterwards by his own actions.
Idiot.
It happens. The wife/gf/family are always last to know. Nobody wants to believe that a person who they love would be capable of such terrible things.
It’s important to remember that as OOpsidia says, it’s often (not always) the case that wives/girl friends and other loved ones genuinely did not know. It’s not only they who struggle to believe their loved one is capable of terrible things, its colleagues
I have no sympathy for JW. His comment that he wouldn’t resign ‘over this’ was shocking. It may have reflected his real beliefs here, that his friend and colleague hadn’t or wasn’t capable of the things alleged.
In his resignation statement , he asked for prayers for his wife and children. He failed to ask for prayers for the victims