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What is it with men? Some men, perhaps, but TOO MANY

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RosiesMaw2 Mon 27-Jan-25 23:16:58

Wynne Evans has stepped away from his BBC radio programme after making an “inappropriate and unacceptable” remark towards a Strictly Come Dancing presenter
Evans, the opera singer and star of the Go Compare adverts, was caught on camera appearing to use the term “spit roast” in reference to Janette Manrara, who is hosting the Strictly live tour.
The incident happened during a photocall for the tour in Birmingham, as Ms Manrara stood between Evans and Jamie Borthwick, another Strictly contestant. Borthwick did not take part in the exchange
I am proud to say it would not have occurred to DH or indeed any men in my family to use that sort of language.
D1 and GD (10) went to the Strictly Live show 10 days ago, with friends, also with a 10 year old daughter.
GD loved it but if she had caught any of the interview what on earth could we have said to her?

Galaxy Thu 30-Jan-25 15:54:55

'They must think we fell of a flitting' - where does that originate Iam64 - I like it!

Iam64 Thu 30-Jan-25 16:21:54

My grannie wasn’t born in Bury but in Coventry. Aged about 11-12 she was put into service in the big house. She hated it and along with her younger sister got to Bury where an uncle put them up and got them work in the cotton mill.
She became a Bury lass. Another favourite was “well, I’ll go to the foot of our stairs”
My other gran was Manchester born but married and lived in Bury. Another mill worker and with the same great phrases

nightowl Thu 30-Jan-25 16:29:20

My mum used that expression too Iam, born and bred in Yorkshire.

Another one was ‘you know what thought did - followed a muck cart and thought it were a wedding’.

Iam64 Thu 30-Jan-25 16:40:22

night owl / exactly on the response if we said ‘I think’ - you know what think did followed a muck cart and thought it were a wedding
So, we learned to “think on”

We had Yorkshire relatives / miners with mill work this side of the penines

The older I get the more I value those kind, hard working and it must be said, doting grandparents. One would buy our Easter rocks, the other shoes. Same with school uniforms. I confess to being a doting grannie following their example

nightowl Thu 30-Jan-25 17:30:01

Yes Iam, for me it was a response to ‘well I thought….’ grin

Wonderful memories and people Iam, like you I think of them more and more.

Chocolatelovinggran Thu 30-Jan-25 18:55:29

We still go to the foot of our stairs in my house, Iam, and unsuitable behaviours are considered likely to be " the talk of the wash-house ".

Iam64 Thu 30-Jan-25 19:43:01

Oh I’d forgotten that cracker, the talk of the wash house.
I remember early Coronation Street, which mum tried to stop us watching. She thought it was ‘common’ a very serious thing in her world view. She also worried that those in the south would think were all like that awful Elsie Tanner.
My two sisters and I still revert to ‘and think on Martha Longhurst” in the true Ena Sharples manner

Sarnia Fri 31-Jan-25 17:07:43

Keeping the pot boiling is the Bishop of Liverpool who has resigned after misconduct allegations were made against him, one accuser being a female priest.

Iam64 Fri 31-Jan-25 18:06:03

Sarnia yes, in my post yesterday afternoon I updated us on the bishop’s resignation

GrammarGrandma Sun 02-Feb-25 08:24:25

I will be 80 in April and am perfectly aware of this term and its meaning. I doubt my husband is. But if he were, he would never use it. No decent man would.

Ilovedogs22 Sun 02-Feb-25 09:07:04

crazyH

Never liked the man - has a leery look about him

🤣 your comment make me Spit-out my Porridge crazyH

Lydie45 Thu 06-Feb-25 16:10:48

I’ve just had to look it up and must admit I found it revolting, why would a man risk his career, he must know it’s a horrible thing to say.