Thank you Wyllow for clarification I occasionally bring the subject of coercion with my granddaughter and to resist it all costs.
Slightly off topic. I was delighted when a lap dancing club was shut down by popular consensus from residents' pressure, where I used to live a couple of miles from Twickenham, entertainment fors 'some' of the more rowdier of rugby supporters
cited in a town, surrounded by residential areas many complaints about the men it attracted hanging around the environs. Once a regular shop. Thankfully reinstated as a dry cleaners. Euphemistically known as "gentleman's clubs" more like gratuitous gatherings for the objectification of women. As with prostitution, never sure how much coercion exists within that form of entertainment, using that word loosely, trafficking etc.
AIBU to say that husband was irresponsible?
Struggling with estrangement from 2 adult children and dont know where to go from here.


They wouldn't get away with it today, as bad as that was in some respects with the advent of social media, smart phones have unleashed a whole new wave of horrors, porn as opposed to titillation much more accessible.