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CariadAgain I'm not denying that kind of thing happens, but it seems that you're using it as an excuse (or at least a mitigating factor) for white on black racism?
Wouldn't it be better for everybody to be more tolerant rather than saying "Well, the other side did something, so I'll do it too". In fact, that takes me right back to the primary school playground, so maybe claims that racists are psychologically stunted in some way have a point.You clearly haven’t understood anything from CariadAgain as she highlights the fact that even within the UK English people who don’t speak Welsh can be sidelined for jobs, even jobs that aren’t customer facing, or can be made to feel uncomfortable on purpose.
Thank you.
That is exactly what I am saying. As far as I was concerned when I moved here - and I still think that way - = The vast majority of people here are what I mean by British (ie English, Welsh, Scottish, Irish) and the way I define British is "What nationality were your parents?".
But.....it came as a surprise to me to find a noticeable number of people here regard me as a different race (even though both sides of my family are British going back many generations). As far as I'm concerned - people here are basically British in the main....but I have become very aware since moving here that there are a substantial proportion of people that will regard me as a different nationality - despite us both being "British - yep for generations". There is a phrase I'd never heard before I moved here - where someone can be described as "5th generation Welsh" and what is meant by that (as far as I can figure out) is "They are Welsh...and so were their parents and so were their parents before them....going back 5 generations = yep they're really Welsh". I understand the point - because my mother years back told me "I'm English, your father is English and that therefore means you are English" and I agree that is the way to define what nationality someone is basically.
It's maybe a tad easier for me than some - because my mother regarded herself as "Cornish" really - rather than "English". Yep...she was English/born in Devon/etc.....but that is how she thought. I really honestly don't know why - because she's someone no-one could have much of an in-depth conversation with.....but her husband/my father told me "The second your mother crosses the border between Devon and Cornwall she changes as soon as she is the Cornish side and she starts feeling at home". Me - I look at Cornwall and think "Bleak...it feels bleak to me" and I describe myself as "British" in Wales and "English" in England.
There are all sorts of "twists and turns" in that little set-up and I had to boycott the local paper here for quite some time - because a "local/LOCAL/////did you hear me say LOCAL?" guy here went drink-driving at lunchtime (middle-aged guy - so old enough to know better) and accidentally killed a young guy. I boycotted the newspaper because they were on HIS side!!!!!! and asking people to support what they described as "Well respected local businessman" !!!!!! I was horrified...and am very thankful the editor got made redundant not long after that - though she walked into a reasonable level "locals" job soon after. That's not all that story - but it was the start of it and I was gobsmacked at someone so in the wrong getting such support.
So - yep.....point being I regard them as same nationality as me - but that is not a shared viewpoint by many here. I'd say it's about 90% British here in this town I think - but it's widely seen (by both Welsh and English) as being "45% a race called English and 45% a different race called Welsh". That has taken a long time to click that that is how things are seen in some parts of the country - and I guess the same applies to much of Scotland and Ireland (which I do think of Ireland as a whole country and not really part of Britain personally and struggle with it being seen as two distinct parts).
But I've learnt to emphasise different parts of Me depending on where I am. Back in England = bring on the academic analysis of everything and all the new foods etc for me to try (yep...my city is proud of being just 6 months behind London). Here in Wales, on the other hand, and they accept the "fey" side of me and I can say "I KNEW something I've never been told logically - but I knew it" and they accept I have a level of intuition that does tell me things I have no logical way of knowing - but I do know it sometimes (and blinkin' useful it can be too....). I never mentioned that back in my own city - as I'd have soon been into great academic discussions about it....
I'm sorta working my way through a way of melding both aspects. But yep....fwiw - and Welsh and English are regarded as two separate races here - by most people on both sides of that equation.....
. Where has he mentioned people being ignored or belittled? I have quoted the bits where he talks about psychological ill-health. Would you mind showing the bits about being ignored or belittled, please?