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Shocking Stabbing

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Cossy Sun 19-Jul-26 18:07:09

This lady was asleep in her bed, with her husband and with her young baby, in their own home.

“A man has been charged with murder after a woman was fatally stabbed in Hayes, west London.

The Metropolitan Police said officers were called just before 08:00 BST to a property on Uxbridge Road on Sunday where they found Kirandeep Kaur with stab wounds.

Despite efforts of emergency services, the 24-year-old was pronounced dead at the scene.

A man in his 20s was found outside the property, also with stab injuries. He remains in hospital and his condition is not considered to be life threatening.

Daniel Sean James, 44, of Mercer Place, Pinner, was also charged on Monday with attempted murder and possession of a bladed article. He is due to appear at Willesden Magistrates' Court on Tuesday”

Someone on Facebook has asked “where is the cold dark rage”

He’s not advocating violence, but he’s questioning why this doesn’t meet the narrative of being outraged.

What is happening in our country and in our world?

Wyllow3 Sun 19-Jul-26 23:29:47

It took 40 seconds to find out the ethnicity of the man by entering the sentence with the name in from the O/P

result (BBC)

"Yes, Daniel Sean James is a white British man. Court and police proceedings identify him as a British male of Caucasian descent"

There simply is not the publicity there would have been had it been a man of diverse ethnicity actually breaking onto a house and going into someones bedroom to stab them to death

It would have hit the headlines in most newspapers. IMO no use pretending it could be otherwise.

25Avalon Mon 20-Jul-26 07:17:03

Actually Wyllow all too often the ethnicity of suspects is often withheld if they are not white to avoid whipping up racist hatred before cases have been examined.

Maremia Mon 20-Jul-26 07:33:38

A decision is made 'to avoid whipping up racial hatred'
and
'before cases have been examined'.
Should Posters also observe the same restraints?

MartavTaurus Mon 20-Jul-26 07:43:26

25Avalon

Actually Wyllow all too often the ethnicity of suspects is often withheld if they are not white to avoid whipping up racist hatred before cases have been examined.

The trouble with that is, that a lack of transparency can result in disinformation, which is often a far bigger problem for society.

Chocolatelovinggran Mon 20-Jul-26 07:46:30

I think that there was a new informal agreement, after the Southport riots, to encourage both police and press to declare the ethnicity of any suspect, thus avoiding any unfounded speculation.

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 07:55:37

As far as I can check this is the latest interim guidance on the matter issued by the College of Policing last year

‘When disclosure may be appropriate
The national guidance advises that forces should confirm the nationality and/or ethnicity of the suspect or defendant (where known or recorded) in high profile, or sensitive investigations or operations where there is:

a policing purpose in doing so
a related risk or impact on public safety such as rising community tension
misinformation or disinformation leading to community tension
a significant level of media or social media interest’

GrannyGravy13 Mon 20-Jul-26 08:07:33

There are between 500-600 murders each year in the U.K.

Each one is one too many as far as I am concerned, regardless of the ethnicity of the perpetrator.

The ethnicity becomes a problem when the perpetrator is not born in the U.K., and has come to this country for sanctuary.

In my opinion this inflames the situation as it is an abuse of the UK’s generosity, not an act of someone grateful to have been given asylum from whatever evils and horrors they were fleeing.

nanna8 Mon 20-Jul-26 08:09:11

Maremia

A decision is made 'to avoid whipping up racial hatred'
and
'before cases have been examined'.
Should Posters also observe the same restraints?

Why ?

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 08:14:21

The ethnicity is just always a problem regardless of whether the person was born here or not. It inflames the situation because it is whipped up by racists supported by the likes of Farage.

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 08:19:33

A few months ago there was a frankly bizarre situation not far from where I live A young woman claimed to have been gang raped. There was public disorder with the usual flag waving young men attacking the police for not releasing the ethnicity information on the suspects. This proved difficult for the police as the rape never happened so there was no information re ethnicity ( or anything else) to release.

Sarnia Mon 20-Jul-26 08:31:33

Tuliptree

A few months ago there was a frankly bizarre situation not far from where I live A young woman claimed to have been gang raped. There was public disorder with the usual flag waving young men attacking the police for not releasing the ethnicity information on the suspects. This proved difficult for the police as the rape never happened so there was no information re ethnicity ( or anything else) to release.

It sounds like you live near me. I remember that incident. The Police are damned if they do and damned if they don't.

Maremia Mon 20-Jul-26 08:32:32

Why, nanna?
Simple.
'To avoid whipping up racial hatred'

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 08:35:54

Sarnia - exactly. I felt really sorry for the police and local inhabitants and businesses. It was a scarey time

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 09:04:35

MissAdventure

The issue for me is that a young woman was stabbed to death in her own home.
Now, if she had phoned to police and they'd said "Stabbed? I don't think you were, love"...

That’s exactly it.
are posters wilfully misunderstanding in order to try and twist things to make out that other posters or the UK population don’t care two hoots about a young woman being murdered in her own home by an intruder because he was white?I think they are, and why? To spread dissent?

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 09:06:59

Oreo - no wilful misunderstanding here.

GrannyGravy13 Mon 20-Jul-26 09:07:41

Oreo in my opinion you are correct in your assessment of the situation 👍

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 09:08:09

Tuliptree

The ethnicity is just always a problem regardless of whether the person was born here or not. It inflames the situation because it is whipped up by racists supported by the likes of Farage.

Tbh there is whipping up outrage on this thread about the ethnicity of the attacker.Implying that nobody cares about the victim when that’s patently untrue.

GrannyGravy13 Mon 20-Jul-26 09:09:15

MissAdventure

The issue for me is that a young woman was stabbed to death in her own home.
Now, if she had phoned to police and they'd said "Stabbed? I don't think you were, love"...

Exactly 👍

Nobody should be murdered in their bed in their own home!

GrannyGravy13 Mon 20-Jul-26 09:10:18

Tuliptree

Is the suspect white? There your answer if he is .

?

Galaxy Mon 20-Jul-26 09:10:36

It is just more division. Dividing people up according to skin colour is done by both sides, the progressives just can't see it.

GrannyGravy13 Mon 20-Jul-26 09:10:38

Tuliptree

My point is that if he is white that explains the lack of outrage at the slaughter of a Sikh woman.

?

Tuliptree Mon 20-Jul-26 09:12:51

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GrannyGravy13 Mon 20-Jul-26 09:15:26

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Galaxy Mon 20-Jul-26 09:17:41

Because it isnt and never has been about the safety of women, it never has been, it is about politics.

Oreo Mon 20-Jul-26 09:21:13

That’s a terrible thing to say Tuliptree
Reform supporters are not NF supporters, many are disgruntled former Labour supporters.