I was taught that you say the other person's name first e.g "Withnail and I" not as I heard today on Woman's Hour "Myself and the Home Secretary...!" What is with this "self" anyway? Myself, yourself - why not I/me, you or is that too easy?
Oh don't get me started on that one! A chap I work with never ever says me, you or even us! it's always myself, yourself and ourselves, as in on the phone to a potential client " I would like to arrange a meeting with yourself"