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Hating ‘on’ instead of just ‘hating’.

(33 Posts)
Witzend Tue 07-Jul-26 21:59:49

I’ve seen this twice in the past couple of days - in both cases the ‘on’ was completely redundant.
Is it another blasted import from across the pond?

Oreo Thu 09-Jul-26 13:01:23

Doodledog

I don't mind 'meeting up', but 'meeting with' sounds wrong to me. 'I met Fred yesterday', says it all - there is no need for I met with Fred'. He would have to be there for you to meet him. I suppose we could have 'I met up with Fred' to be really irritating grin

Did you and Fred have fun?🤭

Oldnproud Thu 09-Jul-26 13:12:15

I often use "met up with +name" for an arranged get-together at a pre-determined location

When I just say "I met + name", I would usually meen that I encountered that person by chance.

Doodledog Thu 09-Jul-26 23:34:30

Oreo

Doodledog

I don't mind 'meeting up', but 'meeting with' sounds wrong to me. 'I met Fred yesterday', says it all - there is no need for I met with Fred'. He would have to be there for you to meet him. I suppose we could have 'I met up with Fred' to be really irritating grin

Did you and Fred have fun?🤭

No, he was hating on me😩

Chestnut Fri 10-Jul-26 00:18:02

Padstow13

As long as coffee or tea breaks don't become Hydration Breaks!

Well they've been called 'comfort breaks' for some time now.

Oreo Fri 10-Jul-26 07:58:12

Doodledog

Oreo

Doodledog

I don't mind 'meeting up', but 'meeting with' sounds wrong to me. 'I met Fred yesterday', says it all - there is no need for I met with Fred'. He would have to be there for you to meet him. I suppose we could have 'I met up with Fred' to be really irritating grin

Did you and Fred have fun?🤭

No, he was hating on me😩

That’s Fred all over 🤬LTB!

drbledu23 Sat 18-Jul-26 19:13:36

Doodledog

I don't mind 'meeting up', but 'meeting with' sounds wrong to me. 'I met Fred yesterday', says it all - there is no need for I met with Fred'. He would have to be there for you to meet him. I suppose we could have 'I met up with Fred' to be really irritating grin

In grammatical terms:

Formal pre-arranged - to meet with + definite article = I met with Fred/the board/the director

Informally or by chance - met + definite article = I met Fred in the high street

Meeting up with is a (usually American) aberration of to meet with and is often misapplied both formally and informally

Really pedantic!

nexus63 Sat 18-Jul-26 19:19:13

hating on i have heard a lot on american youtube videos as in .....bro i am so hating on her right now.