Nanaandgrampy - no the pup was not housetrained. DIL has MS and other health problems. She has an always open backdoor to garden so i suppose the pup got used to that. I think she might have tried harder if she had carpet and not laminate floors.
They have their first meal AFTER our walk at 8, but if i feed them before when we get up, surely they will soil everywhere after a night's break while i get their food ready? I really wish i had a garden as I had with my dog. She used to go out there first thing, then i fed her and we went for a longer walk mid morning
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I have two crates i borrowed which i leave them in when i (rarely) go out but they whine.
I bought the splitter lead yesterday but they don't pee or poo if i use it.
Oriel - good idea, will try it
I have express deliveried puppy nappies for tomorrow for pup to wear indoors which should hopefully deal with my biggest stress.