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Time to say goodbye, goodnight to Pudding

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jura2 Mon 16-Jul-18 13:22:29

Pudding was found in a cardboardbox, with another cat and 10 kittens, by the M1/M69 jct. almost dead. Thank goodness the lady who saw the box move, insisted her husband drove all the way back to Lutterworth and up again, when he said he could not stop.

They were taken to Cat rescue, who found a foster family, then host families for the kittens- but no-one wanted the mums. And so they ended up with us - Pudding was named so as she was a big girl, with a tummy that flopped on the ground. She moved with us in 2009, and has been very happy here- but she is now VERY thin, with sunken eyes- and recently has been unable to jump on the bed, or missed.. and the time has come. We hoped she would jsut forget to wake up one day... So the vet will come home some time this week- in the meantime, lots of cuddles and softly cooked chicken and her favourite treats.

We adopted her in .... 1995 and the vet then sais she was about 4. Our vet here says he has never seen a cat over the age of 23. Bless her white socks.

Bathsheba Mon 16-Jul-18 13:26:09

So sorry to hear poor Pudding's life is now coming to a close. But, oh my, what a very long life she has enjoyed! Focus on that jura and remember all the happy times. Good for you for taking her in when nobody wanted her. Bless her little socks indeed.

SueDonim Mon 16-Jul-18 13:46:51

Dearest Pudding. flowers

merlotgran Mon 16-Jul-18 14:20:33

Sad that she is reaching the end of a good life which might never have been. I think it was Jilly Cooper who said 'You will never be loved as much as you will by an animal you have rescued.'

Comforting words, I hope. flowers

Alima Mon 16-Jul-18 15:46:42

So sorry to hear about Pudding, what a wonderful cat she is.

Anniebach Mon 16-Jul-18 16:31:18

Sleep dear Pudding x

Charleygirl Mon 16-Jul-18 16:35:49

Sleep well, you have had a lovely life.

Doodle Mon 16-Jul-18 16:45:46

a life well loved. What more can you ask ?

MawBroon Mon 16-Jul-18 16:48:26

What more could she have asked for - a loving forever home and when the time comes to fall asleep in the arms of those she trusts and who love her best. ??

jura2 Mon 16-Jul-18 16:48:33

Thanks all - I do think the best thing we can do with pets we adopt and love, it to know when the right time has come.
So we will be sad, but we will just remember the good times. She is such a very old lady- the vet has not yet given us the date and time. She will come when she is over this way int he next week or so. No way are we taking her to the vet- 15 miles away.

Jane10 Mon 16-Jul-18 16:48:56

Oh poor old puss! Poor you. These last few days an be bittersweet. At least you'll have a chance to give her a last spoiling and say goodbye. Awww.
flowers

jura2 Mon 16-Jul-18 16:49:48

thinking of it, she has never been to a vet since we adopted her, only the once to do her EU passport to bring her here.
So home is where we will say goodbye.

farview Mon 16-Jul-18 18:01:14

Sending hugs jura2 time for her to go and because you love her....you are letting her!moon

Cherrytree59 Mon 16-Jul-18 18:14:36

Wishing sweet sleep for little Pudding ?

Purpledaffodil Mon 16-Jul-18 18:15:51

Feel for you. Our rescued cat from Dubai died of liver cancer over two years ago. DH still mourns her and refuses to have another cat. I agree about not taking her to the vet if it can be avoided. flowers

MrsJamJam Mon 16-Jul-18 18:19:19

Well done for choosing to get the vet to come to Pudding's home. It may cost more but it is so much kinder for them to slip away cuddled up on your lap in their own familiar surroundings. And you can weep as much as you like afterwards. You have given her a wonderful life.flowers

seacliff Mon 16-Jul-18 22:13:25

Lucky Pudding to have you as a family, she has had a wonderful stress free life since you took her in. And a peaceful pain free end. No cat could ask for more. I feel for you, it's a hard time. flowers to you and dear Pudding.

Sparklefizz Tue 17-Jul-18 08:32:58

Jura2 I feel for you ..... poor Pudding, poor you. We love our pets so much. You've given Pudding a loving and happy life and you will never forget her, but maybe at some future time you will feel able to give that love and security to another little cat that needs rescuing. But all that is in the future. flowers for you and a big cuddle for Pudding.

grandtanteJE65 Wed 18-Jul-18 12:25:49

Jura2 - all my sympathy - it is dreadful getting to that stage, but you are doing the right thing, you know.

Katek Wed 18-Jul-18 15:57:15

A life well lived, sleep well Pudding. flowers

Fennel Wed 18-Jul-18 17:00:55

It's hard to accept that they only have a short life, compared with ours. Because they're like our closest friends.
But well done Pudding, and you, Jura.

TwiceAsNice Wed 18-Jul-18 17:04:56

So sad for you but how lovely you have had a long time with her and she will go to sleep being held by the person who has given her so much love. Grief is the pain we pay for love I think that applies just as much to a beloved cat as to a beloved human. I hope we get to keep out cats as long

jura2 Sat 21-Jul-18 10:26:08

Thank you for your lovely comments. Spent the afternoon with her, on my bed- then the French vet came to our house at 4 and she went to sleep in my arms ... purring!

Best thing was not to put her through the stress of a long journey to the vet - it was only the 3rd time she had met a vet in her long life. When at the Cat Refuge, for her passport when we moved, and yesterday. Moggies are the best- and live so much longer than bred cats. Sleep tight our PudPud.

And bye from me too - life is too short indeed.

OldMeg Sat 21-Jul-18 11:13:17

Run free sweet Pudding ??

sodapop Sat 21-Jul-18 14:15:16

God bless little pudding, run free now. You did your best for her jura2 that's all she could ask. Take care of yourself now. flowers