my husband just doesn't want anymore as he says they are so tying.
I had to have my 20.5 year old cat euthanised last November and I miss her like mad. 20 years is a long time to have an animal and it has left a massive void. This was my thread www.gransnet.com/forums/pets/1268769-Saying-goodbye-to-my-beautiful-cat
She had diabetes for 9 years and I used to inject her twice per day. We had to fit all our plans around her but I didnt mind as I loved her so much. DH said that we would be able to come and go as we please and even have holidays. We did have holidays and she went to a very good and understanding cattery nearby, so I didnt see that as a problem. After she died he said that he had felt left out because of all the time that I had spent with her! Also I often said that she was my best friend and he felt neglected that he wasnt my best friend. I laughed and said he was being childish. Or was I being selfish in not spending all of my waking hours with him? I thought he was being pathetic at the time. The thing is I want another cat so much and he has said no. We dont go or do anything different now to when we had the cat infact he spends most of his waking hours working in his garage/workshop. Be brutal folks, what do you think?
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