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And they say cats aren't sensitive

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Jane10 Sat 02-May-20 20:10:06

An elderly nieghbour of ours is having a very sad, bad time right now. She's miserable and due to social distancing nobody can visit her or just give a hug. She sits out in our communal garden as she likes the change of scene and some sun in her face. We wave through the window or chat from a distance. However, yesterday a completely strange little tabby cat appeared from nowhere and promptly jumped up on the bench and climbed on to her knee. Apparently s/he sat there purring for ages. Our nieghbour is not a cat person but when we were talking today she was said how happy she'd felt that this funny wee thing thought she was so approachable. We'd love to see the wee cat but no luck. I hope s/he comes back for our neighbour's sake.

phoenix Sun 03-May-20 17:01:23

H1954 get real! Cats cannot be trained to "crap" in their owners gardens!

SueDonim Sun 03-May-20 17:02:56

My cats don’t crap in anyone’s garden. confused.

lemongrove Sun 03-May-20 19:15:42

Mine used to crap in anyone’s garden, including ours.?

lemongrove Sun 03-May-20 19:16:45

They did it sensitively, mind ( covered it up.)

Actually both dogs and cats can be empathetic with your mood.

Jane10 Sun 03-May-20 21:33:37

I'm quite sure dogs are empathetic too but I only posted because of the totally unexpected and therapeutic visit of a strange cat to a sad lady.

Cantakethegirl Mon 04-May-20 01:04:18

I lost my husband mid Feb this year. My cat has been so sweet. She seems to sense when I m sad and doesn’t leave my side. I ve rewarded her today with some baked chicken which she loved. Such a blessing.

4allweknow Mon 04-May-20 10:30:48

H1954 I too can never understand why cats are allowed to roam at will. Some judge declared they were animals that had a natural habit to do so. Dogs from wolves have this too but aren't allowed. I have had cats and none have been allowed to wander. Only when children were young did one cat escort them for 100 yds down the road to school. Would also go and sit waiting on them coming home. That's as far as any of the cats ever ventured. To me it's laziness of cat owners to train their pet.

Moth62 Mon 04-May-20 11:36:32

Completely agree that cats shouldn’t be allowed to just wander wherever and poo in any garden they choose. My son’s garden is surrounded by cat owning folk and so his garden is often full of cat muck. He has a little girl who likes to run about in the garden but the cats have made it such a mess. Dog owners have to clean up their pets’ mess - why can’t cat owners be made to do the same? I have nothing against cats, just their unjustified mess in others’ gardens

Puzzler61 Mon 04-May-20 11:44:43

At age 15 DD1 caught glandular fever and was very poorly on bed rest.
Our black cat at the time, who was very much an outdoor sort of puss, visited our daughter in bed and insisted on lying by her day in day out for 15 days.
They had an inseparable bond after that, and it was lovely to see.

lemongrove Mon 04-May-20 12:31:43

Sorry Jane10 I forgot to comment on the OP and was just following the thread.Yes, that was a nice moment for your neighbour, as if the cat sensed that she needed a friend.?

grandtanteJE65 Mon 04-May-20 13:17:47

When we lost a cat two years ago, I said to his brother that now he would need to spend more time with DH, as the cat who died had spent time with him. The survivor was and is very much my cat.

Since then MY cat spends time every morning cuddling DH.

Years ago I lived in a flat with a long passage between the kitchen and dining room. The cat I had then loved walking as slowly as possible through this narrow passage just in front of whoever was trying to walk there. This was highly exasperating to humans, but a great game to the cat.

When my mother started walking badly, the cat stopped teasing her in this way, but continued to tease the rest of us.

Later when my father started walking badly, the cat showed him the same consideration.

mauraB Mon 04-May-20 13:20:46

We had a beautiful silver grey cat from a rescue centre, she was very gentle and shy. She would disappear when we had visitors. Our son's MIL had a cat phobia and could not get out of the car, when she visited, until she knew the cat was confined! One day the cat escaped, she strutted boldly into the sitting room and made straight for MIL, sat at her feet and stared long and hard into her face. MIL freaked out! The cat turned and strolled away. Weirdest thing we had ever seen.