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Returning puppy to breeder Has anyone does this?

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MollyAA12 Thu 18-Mar-21 15:10:39

We sent back a puppy this week to the breeder after six weeks. We had found the whole experience shattering and the breeder said she would let it go to a lady who already had a cockapoo and wanted another. I ended up stressed and quite ill.
We are both gutted as if she had died. I lost myold spaniel on 4 April last year which was awful and I feel the same again.
I have had three spaniels in the past and they were lovely. Cockapoos are full of octane fuel and will eat and chew anything evenm when they are grown. I have spoken to other owners and they all say they are hard work. We are not young and I feel this contributed to the sheer exhaustion of it all.
Anyone done the same?

Callistemon Tue 11-May-21 16:30:47

I just found our cocker spaniel on a database and he was a show cocker (I never knew that there was a difference in temperament between working cockers and show cockers in those days).

Even so I will say, although he was a delightful bundle of energy, he was also very determined.

NanaandGrampy Tue 11-May-21 16:42:18

I'm not sure Maybee was his kennel called Alpstatt?

I'm a little out of touch with the world of Bernese now ( But Id have one tomorrow :-) )

anna7 Tue 11-May-21 16:44:48

I have an eight month old golden cocker spaniel and he too is very determined. He has a lovely nature though and he is a sweet little chap. I had underestimated how lively puppies are though , although we have had a dog previously. He certainly keeps us busy. DH and I are working as a tag team at the moment so we get a breather from him. I wouldn't like to have a dog if I was single. It takes two of us to deal with one little puppy. I dont know how we managed three children, a job and a dog previously. Age obviously has a lot to do with it.grin

MayBee70 Tue 11-May-21 16:53:17

NanaandGrampy

I'm not sure Maybee was his kennel called Alpstatt?

I'm a little out of touch with the world of Bernese now ( But Id have one tomorrow :-) )

His daughter has taken over now and they’re called Liskarn. They now breed Newfoundland’s, Australian Shepherds and Russian Blacks. Must have stopped breeding Bernese.

MayBee70 Tue 11-May-21 16:53:45

They are beautiful dogs aren’t they....

Callistemon Tue 11-May-21 17:10:06

I'd never heard of Australian Shepherds so I looked them up and was surprised to read:

The Australian Shepherd is a breed of herding dog from the United States. Developed in California in the 19th century

MayBee70 Tue 11-May-21 18:18:56

Crikey. I didn’t know that. I did meet someone with an Australian Shepherd pup a few years ago but didn’t google it at the time. I do write down the names of any dogs I meet when out walking so I can greet them by name next time I see them. People must think I’m mad as I say hello and goodbye to them if I bump into them again. If I don’t write it down I’ll forget.

MayBee70 Tue 11-May-21 18:24:55

I assumed they were Kelpies like Red Dog ( a film I loved but can’t bear to watch again).

Callistemon Tue 11-May-21 22:29:05

I thought they'd be like a German Shepherd or Australian cattle dog, not a dog with long fluffy fur.