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Getting a pup in your 70's. Would you do it?

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bluebird243 Wed 03-Sept-25 15:01:50

I'm 76, in good health, active and no mobility problems. I walk every day for at least 40 minutes.
A pup is for sale locally, nice family. The pup's mum is a Jack Russell who is not a barker, she's a calm, laid back dog. The pup looks like her double.

I've had a JR in the past another quiet, laid back girl and also JR x Dachshund who had a nice nature, no problems and only barked at strange noises and men with walking sticks [rehomed her at 9 months].

I know the puppy stage is full on but I'm on my own now, even the Grandchildren are grown,. Basically I have all the time in the world, friends are either unwell or passed away and I feel very lonely [more than ok with living alone though].

Would you have a pup in my circumstances? Any help I may need in an emergency would be paid help/dog sitters or walkers and I'm ok with that.

SunnySusie Fri 05-Sept-25 15:42:38

My Mum was a dog breeder and had dogs up until she was 90. No way could she have lived without a dog. She gradually reduced the number until she had just one in her last year. He would hop onto the mobility scooter and they would go to the park where he would run and she would sit and chat. Several other dog owners played ball with him and it really brightened her life. She always carefully trained her dogs and when she decided she couldnt cope with her last dog one of the friends from the park re-homed him and took him to visit Mum a couple of times a week for the rest of her life. I walk a dog using the Borrow My Doggie web site which is another route to help with exercise (although they dont screen dog borrowers) or The Cinnamon Trust which was set up to help older people with their dogs and requires three references from their volunteers. I am in the process of registering in the hope of walking a dog for someone who can no longer manage it.

Caleo Sat 06-Sept-25 12:27:41

I confess that when my beloved JRT dies I was so desperate to get another canine companion I'd have bought from a breeder. The rescues and breeders ruled me, out at my age, even though I had plenty of back -up dog carers.

Finally I found a rescue service where the woman was able to assess me personally age and all. She and I are still in touch about one year later as to how I am doing . My lovely Romanian will be welcomed back by her when and if I had to give him up.

undines Sat 06-Sept-25 14:39:32

Don't hesitate! Why limit your life? You've thought this through and dogs are so wonderful, you will live ten extra years for having your pup! And there is always someone willing to look after a dear little dog while you go on holiday - Enjoy!

WelshPoppy Sat 06-Sept-25 14:47:43

No, I wouldn't. We've had dogs for the last 30 years and our current girl is 6. When she goes I'll probably be in my 70s and wouldn't want to take on another as I'd feel dreadful if something happened to me and it had to be rehomed or put in a dogs' home, no matter how good it might be.

Caleo Sat 06-Sept-25 20:05:44

dogsmother

It so depends on your lifestyle, if you like spontaneity and going away don’t do it. The tie for me now would be my only concern.
I would also suggest the cinnamon trust as an alternative for a doggy fix and occasional walking companion. Having a middle aged dog and a partner who keeps informing me he’s the last I have been wrestling with the idea of this too.

You are so right about going away! Safe to say all rescues' application forms ask you if the dog will have to be kenneled when you go away from its home.

All decent rescues and breeders make certain the dog will have a safe and comfortable home.