"when our children got sick,,,did we tier of caring for them,,did we complain.or is it,this wasnt the deal i signed up for.or the life i wanted,when we say its ok to let off steam about caring,it doesnt end there,instead it begins,the care home,assisted dying,make no mistake,this is about the self,and what it wants,oh i get fed up..angry,,tearfull,,,but not because my wife is a burden,to comlpain about,,but because she endures so much,,,,and who am i to say, i am the one suffering,the one complaining,the one carrying the burden,i need to let of steam,,,,the self ,in its most selfish mode.the very opposite of love,,you get sick,,and this is what it has done to me,,,,me...love is caring.it has no qualifications to be met,,it is unconditional,,we never get weary of caring for a sick child,,why is it so different when its an adult.that adult used to be a child to...unconditional"
That is what you said in October, Mikey345 on 27 September you told us how you have been single for 10 years and go on dates.
Can you enlighten those of us who sympathised with you for your unstinting care for your wife???