I bet you've missed the Idiot - so here is the next instalment - advice please!!

Yes same here Kitty. I have 2 other lovely SILs!

I would certainly insist on supervised contact via SS and if he dismisses it tough on him at least your DD can say later in life that all attempts had been made,I would worry constantly if the children where with the GPs with regard to the history of the GF and the attack on your DD,surely this man must be in his 70s he is just an out and out bully imo and needs to be avoided at all costs by those little ones but I understand your DD not wanting to slated as the bad person who is refusing contact,she must put her wishes first,is this the idiot who now has a new relationship kitty going to form as per his father and his last relationship with your DD he will start manipulating his new partner in the near future so will maybe relent in his haressment of your lovely DD.

Glamma, we think his behaviour now is a result of his girlfriend dumping him and not being as open to manipulation as DD. That's good for her but not for us!! She is insisting on the children not being left alone with the other GPs. The Idiot tried to play tit for tat on that card but DD gave him short shrift. [apologies for the mixed thingies there, but you get what I mean.] DD saw him out with another woman recently.

Downtoearth, no offence taken. I could get really cross with DD for being so silly, but I don't! My excuse for her was that she was 19, he was late forties, he used the pub where she worked while she was at university, he was flashy he appeared to have quite a bit of money. Also I think the fact that she has brothers who are 16 and 14 years older than her had some bearing too.

Having said all of that, I could swing for the sodding Idiot.

Gosh kitty he ceratinly seems to attract a few women doesn't he is he one of those men who must have a woman in his life at all times to pander to his needs ? Good on your DD for becoming stronger with her insistence about the other GPs she will get stronger by the day it took my DD a while but she got there in the end,and I also gained quite a few grey hairs in the process.

Arghh Kitty, what is he up to now? As if you didn't have enough on your plate?

I am is this still the original thread from August, or have there been further developments?

I'm too.

I would not want my children to see a FIL who had put his hands round my throat! Just don't bother I say!

I can get you those bullets if it gets really desperate!

There is a big six-month gap between the posts up to 25th August and the ones today, 7th January. I don't think there is any new news about The Idiot.

Do you really think I would post this unless kitty herself had not mentioned the Idiot on another thread. Really... please.

She will not take them to see his parents as her FiL put his hands round her throat and threatened to hit her last time she went there.
Well, I don't think I would want them to see FIL at all.

Oven beeping, will read and perhaps post later
chin up

See 'what small thing would make your life better?

(really Alea, I know you can't stand me, but try to be civil, somehow!)

Oh, here we go.......

I so wish I could edit and cancel my comments- but I can't. How sad- this is not about you, not about me, but about kitty having a hard time. Please, respect that, thanks. So sorry kitty, I truly meant this to be in support.

Granjura
Exactly which part of
I'm is this still the original thread from August, or have there been further developments
is in your opinion lacking in civility???

Now I really am it seems I cannot post anything without accusations being thrown around. Now IMHO that does suggest a lack of civility.

Well, I did see the other post and responded on there, so yes, granjura posted too on the other thread and so did I, which some people may not have seen.

So, bearing in mind not many people may have seen it, I didn't think Alea's post sounded out of order. I think she was perfectly reasonable to say she was or have I missed something?

Anyway kitty I can understand how you feel and I'm sure you will pick up this thread if you need support.

I'm OK gj but things gave been caknush with the bloody Idiot until today! He is just a complete and utter A*****le! Send bad vibes please grans. Actually, don't because if he is suffering it's DD and the DGC who have to cope - if she would only let me get my hands on him and his Flipping parents!!

X post Alea (I am very slow)

I wonder what I meant by caknush! I really must learn to proof read!

Did I mention I'm a marksman with a pistol , smg and rifle * Kittylester* ?

Oh wait...that might be seen as advertising

stands for "confused" and I am totally
I do not have the faintest idea what GJ is talking about, why I have been taken to task, or (apologies kittylester!in what way I might not be seen to be respecting your feelings.
However, bottom line is that you Granjura never seem to miss an opportunity to have a go at me and accuse me of whatever you feel like.
"Why did I join Gransnet?" Well not to be somebody's kicking boy, and not put up with such random rudeness and vitriol. I don't encounter it in RL, so why on earth should I here.

really Alea I know you can't stand me but try to be civil somehow
What occasioned this gem is completely beyond me , but am I going to hang around for more?
Find someone else to have a go at in future.
(Am I "flouncing"? Too damn right)

I don't know what you meant by it kitty but it is a great word and worth remembering to use again. It conveys how you feel exactly. He does create a lot of caknush.

granjura I said much the same as alea when I saw a sudden post on this thread after six months. Would you like to start on me next?

I hadn't seen kitty's post on another thread, so I was confused - well, it was confusing, wasn't it?

kitty sorry to hear that he is acting true to form again. He doesn't learn, does he?

Because he's flipping thick Elegant!!