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Update on husbands unacceptable behaviour

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Miss2Mrs Tue 07-Jun-16 07:15:24

A few weeks ago, I posted on here for advice about my husbands behaviour towards me and my children/grandchildren. I had many responses, for which I was extremely grateful. You might like to know what happened next...

I spoke to the National Helpline for Domestic Abuse who confirmed what everyone else said and opened my eyes to what was really going on.

With some fantastic support from my family, I have now moved out and am starting divorce proceedings. I feel so very relieved, although a little sad that my 'forever' relationship turned out to be wrong. I'm enjoying the freedom of living without a bully now, so that more than compensates for the small sadness.

I don't know what the future holds, or even where and how I will live after I leave my temporary accommodation, but I know that I'll be fine ?

Thank you again for your support. X

hermione89 Wed 08-Jun-16 06:38:17

That's wonderful news Miss2Mrs, you have done the right thing, nobody should live with a bully.I hope everything continues going well and I wish you all the luck in the world.

Grannynise Wed 08-Jun-16 09:35:27

That's great! You are a brave person and deserve to have a happy and successful future. I'm sure you will. sunshine

Newquay Thu 09-Jun-16 05:46:06

Hope all goes well??

phizz Fri 10-Jun-16 20:20:08

I've been divorced twice and no one says it's easy, but you've taken the first, giant step and things will get better, I promise you.
I am more happy now than I have ever been, so hang in there
Miss2Mrs and believe me, all will be well, just give it time.