I wonder whether there are any stepmothers or stepgrandmothers who cope well with being ignored at these events. Although my husband and I have been invited to the weddings of his 31 year old grandchildren I find it hard when they invite their blood related grandmothers to things like birthday parties and hen parties, while I am studiously ignored. It is not as if we don't get on either. What sort of attitude works best. To be honest I feel a bit hurt, but try not to show it. My husband and I also don't get invited to birthday parties for grandchildren either (but are expected to and do contribute on the presents for all these occasions)
I don't want to cause any awful fuss with my husband, but do feel a bit left out of this new family.
Frank Field, Labour Peer has died, aged 81y.
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