Several years since his ex wife moved out (taking his, at that time, very young children with her) my son has just begun a relationship (his first since they left) with a woman he has known for a while. His children know and like her but he thought it best to tell his ex about his relationship rather than the news coming from the kids (he has them for weekends regularly) and seemed to have a "decent" relationship with his ex. However when he told her she was, according to him, "totally obnoxious" about it. He refuses to tell me what she said because he knows I'm still fond of her (after all she is the mother of my grandchildren) but he was really upset. I've told him she's just jealous (as far as we know she has not had any relationships since she left him)and to take no notice but it's left him really down - I think he's afraid she will use it as an excuse to stop the kids' visits (which is what he lives for) and they are still too young to visit without her say so.
We can't be the only people he have been in this situation ... how have others dealt with it?
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