My son's partner's mother (I will call her S) Is such hard work! We all live fairly close to one another - in fact my friend is S's sister. They are like chalk and cheese. I have known the family since childhood. I can never be myself with S as risk of argument / clash too high. I am always having to watch my Ps and Qs so as not to trigger her off. At times I find I am often having to bite my lips. I find her so negative literally about everything! She can also be very opinionated- even towards her own sister - my friend from childhood. Hence I avoid too much contact with her but obviously there are occasions I do have to mix with her - no matter how hard I try to ignore her cutting remarks about this one and that one I always come away feeling totally deflated and worn out through trying not to show how irritating I find her. Over the years I realise she aims at people's vulnerabilities. Unless people agree with her she can make life very difficult and I have to keep quiet for sake of rest of family.
S and her partner (her second marriage) are drinkers - their life mainly revolves around the local pub. Ironically her first marriage failed through the husband's alcoholism. She often talks about how difficult her life has been - none of which she takes responsibility for - everyone else is to blame for her life. She has made so many sacrifices for her children when they were younger, how her life was very difficult but when you hear about her difficult life over and over it can get very tiresome after a while. Let's face it we all have stories to tell but to continuously play the violin is such a downer!!!
I was out last night with S and her sister (my best friend) to celebrate her 60th birthday - and this morning I am fighting my own emotions to keep positive - although I admit writing my thoughts on here has helped. Why are some people so damning? How some people have that power to bring others down in order to make themselves feel better is just too horrible!!!
Being quizzed by chemist's assistant in Boots.
Good Morning Thursday 25th April 2024
Gary Glitter programme Tuesday