Since my grandson was born (he is now 5) our relationship with our daughter is strained. She doesn't make us feel welcome or included in her life. We have always had to fight to see our grandson and we never go out as a family. It's either Mummy & Daddy or Nana and Grandad! We never get invited for lunch/dinner etc but they never think twice about having friends over.
We see our grandson once a week after school and she never lets us pick him up without her then makes it clear we need to leave before they eat even though it always upsets our grandson who cannot understand why we cannot stay to eat with them...sometimes they eat in front of us while we just watch! We then end up getting fish & chips on our way home to eat n the car.
This is really hurtful as we brought her up to respect and cherish family but it seems she prefers friends/neighbours company to ours.
We have always been supportive and willing to help especially with our grandson but she has always preferred to cope without our help. Although very quick to ask us to babysit when it suits her!
I don't know how to get through to her without causing more upset and possibly a rift in the family. I keep quiet so that we can see our grandson whom we have a great loving bond with.
Any advise please
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