I wish I had written this, sums it all up for me at least.
“Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won't either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their sweetness. Tell yourself you tasted as many as you could.”
The words of the incomparable Louise Erdrich
You have known love and marriage, it may not have ended as you hoped but it was in your life, celebrate that anniversary, it is yours to keep and you are certainly not alone with the disappointment. Love is a stinker, one of you leaves or one of you dies.........that alone is what makes it so precious when it happens.
To go through chemo therapy or choose not to?
Alphabetical girls and boys names January 2024