Startinover16
Don't want to dampen your feelings, but I recently had a bad experience. At the seniors club I go to, a fairly charming young looking 70 year old, started giving me attention, and kept asking for my phone number. After a bitter divorce 20 years ago, I did not want another hurt. He then gave me his number and one day I rang him and after all the usual compliments, (I was flattered ). I told him I wasn't ready for any full-on relationship. I said it would be nice just to be friends, for dinnners, theatre etc. You could have knocked me down with a feather when he told me, oh no I'm not looking for a long term relationship ...I JUST WANT S-X..yes, as blankly as that and then he said "friends with benefits" and he went on to explain the nitty gritty, I put the phone down and although he still comes to our club, I try to ignore him. Can you believe a 70 year old man looking for S-X and in a Seniors Club!!!He should be looking at the red light district. I thought at our age, we want companionship more than anything else. Anyway, take it easy, enjoy the attention and hope there's a nice "partner" at the end of it. All the best !