I have 2lovely daughters and 1 son, they seem to get on quite well, no major problems between them. My problem is that I never see or hear from them unless they want something. We had a lot of input when my youngest grandson was born because his mother is in the military, I've almost gone through empty nest syndrome twice because now she has moved nearby and he has quite rightly moved home. But we never see him, we aren't required to babysit and so are feeling slightly redundant. My other daughter will go weeks without calling, I do call her regularly, but you can guarantee that five minutes into the call she will ask us to have our grandson overnight or collect him from school and we do love having him. My niece occasionally works nights and will phone up with little notice to 'book her daughter in', we never hear from her otherwise. My son lives a distance away and he is much better at keeping in touch but still manages to combine an invitation to stay with a babysitting request. I've just spent the weekend away with daughter number 2 and I'm left with a feeling of having been a really terrible parent. I sometimes feel like running off and at the moment I feel totally inadequate and I don't feel that my children even like me.
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