It’s a long story, so I will try and keep it short.
My sons gf came to stay, she was having problems at home, I agreed on condition she told her family she was safe. Over a few weeks things with her mother were volatile to say the least, especially when they told us she was pregnant. Her mother went spare, we tried to offer support, and encourage her to get on with her mother. Eventually they got themselves a place of their own, with lots of physical and financial help from us. They had a beautiful baby, again we supplied everything they needed. Her mother refused to have anything to do with the child. That changed at the birth. I am disabled, and suffer with panic attacks. As they live in an old building up two sets of stairs, its almost impossible for me to visit them. I last saw them at Christmas, things have felt strained , but I put that down to being new parents. But basically they have said that unless we make more effort and prove our love for them, then we can’t see them. They have cut us all off, including my DD and DS. When they use to come, someone always collected them and took them home, I cooked their favourite food, and sent them home with extras to help them. I would “over shop” so they were helping me by taking groceries.
I just don’t understand where I’ve gone wrong. Her mother and partner are now the flavour of the month, and we are being treated like lepars. I don’t know what to do now.
Can You Name 5 More Songs? (number 2)