as usual, odd duck out, I fear.
I feel for your man. I also feel for you. Have you asked him what's up and what would make him feel better about things? have you discussed the idea of a compromise that makes him feel respected and lets you feel good about helping your child so he not end up on the streets?
Maybe he feels like he will never get by himself time with you and longs for a romance with his wife? Would that really be such a bad thing?
If it were my hubs and me, we'd allow for a home-moving, but there would be a plan, and an exit date. Child would help with grocery cost, and utilities as well as pay a reasonable amount of rent, just so that he remember that life is not a free ride and we raised him to be capable, ahrd working and ultimately the gift of living independent from us.
I think we devalue our men wives..when we don't take into account that they have a right to their feelings as much as we and the kids do.
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