Hm,difficult one,as janeainsworth points out-poeple CAN have cosmetic surgery after an accident etc- BUT it usually involves more than one night in hospital and she would definately have had cat scans to check out her head all right- i would think she would have been in hosp for a while as it sounded so serious,and been grateful of a few friends/ family visiting her.yes very odd- but to get her own son to lie for her is despicable- if i asked my family to do that theyd think i was barking mad! (If shes brought him up honest he would have refused to) why lie at all if she was going to be in hospital only 1 night? Much better to ring folk next day and give little white lie over mislaying her phone or something then,if shes hoping that eye op is good enough to go unoticed?surely she knew youd be worried for her?But also,i can see point of comment about not wanting a friend who scrutinises you so closely then makes assumptions,but then you do know her well enough to know that shes lied before about things so sadly youre probably right.But why not just say,and bask in the compliments of how young she looks etc,if thats what shes had it done for whyever not?nowt so strange as folk they say! But i for one would be cooling off her a bit i must admit, for having lied so badly to me.