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faithful to love

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Chente Thu 19-Jul-18 15:21:07

I separated from my wife because of her infidelity. On the first occasion, I forgive her and we were reconciled, but over the years another man appeared and she fell in love again. When I asked her, she answered me this:
The feelings of Love are something beautiful and should be cause for celebration and not sorrow. I have no owner, nobody has bought me, I do not belong to anyone, nobody sends in my mind or my feelings, I am free to receive the gifts that Heaven wants to give me without asking for permission or forgiveness for it. I have been faithful to Love. I know that it sounds hard but if you see it well no one can send in the Spirit not even oneself.

She is Taoist, because she studied acupuncture in a school of Chinese Traditional Medicine.
What do you think about this?

Jalima1108 Mon 23-Jul-18 23:17:59

Perhaps he shoved them in too far and can't find them now.

Chewbacca Mon 23-Jul-18 22:25:50

He's too busy extracting the acupuncture needles to come back and tell us more!

phoenix Mon 23-Jul-18 22:14:41

Notice that the OP hasn't returned?

pollyperkins Mon 23-Jul-18 21:59:53

I usually prefer to believe posts are genuine until proved otherwise but this just seems too ridiculous for words! Can't take it seriously.

farview Mon 23-Jul-18 21:51:32

Hmmm yes wind up!!!grin

oldbatty Mon 23-Jul-18 14:48:08

Aren't they vegan?

M0nica Fri 20-Jul-18 09:08:42

I was thinking that as well Bluebelle

Ah well, it is the summertime and some people's brains shut down when the weather heats up.

BlueBelle Fri 20-Jul-18 02:27:34

Is this a wind up AGAIN

agnurse Fri 20-Jul-18 00:07:33

Love is a choice. It's not just a feeling. Yes, there's romance, but that's not what ultimately sustains a marriage or a relationship. Real love goes WAY deeper.

I almost get the impression your wife is in love with BEING in love. Sadly I think this is becoming more common. People want the romance of "Titanic" but they don't want the day to day grind and the choice of loving your spouse once the initial honeymoon is over.

crazyH Thu 19-Jul-18 23:30:16

Love that Maw ?

MawBroon Thu 19-Jul-18 23:27:00

Oh yes * crazyH* in the same way that trained podiatrists become Baptists and Dental Hygienists C of E.

crazyH Thu 19-Jul-18 23:11:33

Taoism and Acupuncture ?

FlexibleFriend Thu 19-Jul-18 22:36:07

Yep me too.

phoenix Thu 19-Jul-18 22:19:34

hmm

Coolgran65 Thu 19-Jul-18 22:10:04

I'm also with Maw !!

M0nica Thu 19-Jul-18 21:54:46

So am I!

PECS Thu 19-Jul-18 21:42:18

I'm with Maw grin

Chewbacca Thu 19-Jul-18 21:35:55

Maw got it in one!

sodapop Thu 19-Jul-18 21:25:49

I thought being a Taoist was a belief system not the result of an acupuncture course.
I agree with other posters I'm sorry to say Chente your wife seems like a manipulator.
Find your own happiness. Good luck.

LynneB59 Thu 19-Jul-18 20:34:26

She seems to want to have the best of both worlds. If you let her, she'll carry on doing what she likes

Jalima1108 Thu 19-Jul-18 20:32:30

That's a new one on me

petra Thu 19-Jul-18 19:45:15

Chente
I suggest that the read up on Taoism and relationships and then tell your wife that she's talking a load of shite.
Taosism is not about hiding the sausage with all and sundry.

NanaandGrampy Thu 19-Jul-18 17:11:55

Sounds like an excuse to cheat to me.

People who cheat always have excuses , ‘I couldn’t help it’ , ‘ it’s your fault’ etc etc .

This is just another one of those . Sounds like your wife is a master manipulator ... I’d stop forgiving her if I was you !

Squiffy Thu 19-Jul-18 16:59:33

Think you’re right Maw!

MawBroon Thu 19-Jul-18 16:50:08

Bo**ocks?