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granddaughter sleeping arrangements.

(35 Posts)
bewildered Fri 27-Jul-18 17:08:12

my daughter allows my granddaughter to sleep with her boyfriend when he visits, although she is 21 and of an age to be responsible, i am being told that i am being old fashioned etc because it seems to be the accepted norm. any views on this situation.

Elegran Sat 28-Jul-18 09:19:39

Agreed, Bluebelle Anno

stella1949 Sat 28-Jul-18 09:58:18

A grown woman of 21 ? What's the problem? Move on.

trisher Sat 28-Jul-18 10:02:33

When I first read this I thought the granddaughter was sleeping with the daughter's boy friend. Now that is a bit much!

tanith Sat 28-Jul-18 10:24:08

Another suspect subject?
Wondering why I ever bother reading all these ‘suspect’ posts it’s seems such a waste of everyone’s time .

I’m off ?

Jalima1108 Sat 28-Jul-18 10:26:01

trisher grin

phoenix Sat 28-Jul-18 11:00:39

Notice that bewildered hasn't come back!

trisher Sat 28-Jul-18 11:52:18

I think my standards have been eroded by watching too many soaps where this would be a normal occurrence! Perhaps that's what bewildered should do! Broaden her horizons grin

JackyB Sat 28-Jul-18 12:32:18

All these threads about unmarried people sleeping together have always puzzled me. OK - I only have sons, but I am pretty sure they are responsible, but my main point is, I only find out the girls were here overnight when they creep out in the mornings.

As for DS2's girlfriend staying overnight (because she lives a bit further away) and staying in the same room - that was fine by me. Their daughter was with them in the same room, too.

Jalima1108 Sat 28-Jul-18 13:36:19

JackyB grin
(your last sentence!)