Agree with lovebeigecardigans this is a very tricky subject for a lot of men, particularly if they have spent the past thirty years or so assuming you are happy with what they have been doing/saying. Also I have found that a lot of men are just not as good at communicating with words, so love making can be an avenue for them to demonstrate their feelings without having to work out how to make them verbal, or even without having to understand their own feelings enough to verbalise them. I have been amazed sometimes when asking men what they are feeling right now, that quite a few dont actually know. I suppose it depends how much you are yearning for change as to whether you want to try and persist with this. I dont think change necessarily gets easier as you get older, particularly if, as is presumably the case with your hubbie, he personally is actually OK with the status quo.
Fruit flies - help needed please.
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Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.