Do you think you might subconsciously be enabling your niece to perpetuate this fantasy of being the hard-done to Cinderella?
Tough love is sometimes needed for a reality check.
Would she even be at university if her parents had not both worked?
It is not ideal, but many children have to look after younger siblings when parents have to work.
She sounds a very lucky girl to have had your support but her parents clearly love her. Lack of money does not mean lack of love.
There certainly seems a whiff of the 'Drama Queen' about this girl's behaviour.
Incidentally therapists do not tell clients that they have had a bad childhood. They listen in a non-judgemental manner to enable the client to work through their issues and arrive at their own conclusions.
Sorry if this sounds a bit harsh, just my personal opinion gleaned from what you have said.
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.
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