As someone who suffers from a long term illness which can often have me spending a day in bed sleeping, my problem can be the opposite. My hubby will constantly pop into the bedroom asking if I am ok, disturbing my sleep. He never offers me a drink in bed, but will ask me if I want to get up for a drink/something to eat. I have to ask him to ‘just leave me to sleep until x time’. I know he means well, but if I don’t get the sleep I need, I end up feeling ill for longer.
The other thing that does annoy me is that he kind of thinks, if I am having a day in bed, then that means he doesn’t need to do anything in the house either, which can result in me having to overdo it when I get up, resulting in another day in bed! Grrrrrrrr!