justwokeup I know I am someone who will "pick up" on a style of posting if I feel someone has been particularly unknd/sharp/ derogatory/accusative towards an obviously upset, often hurting, sometimes apparently distraught poster! That's the point really, there is no need whatsoever to be unkind/rude/just plain nasty, even whilst giving straight talking, honest comment or advice!
I think that rudeness/nastiness needs pointing out to posters; in some cases it has made them think, as they have confirmed to me in PMs and to be fair their style has remained direct but a little more thoughtful!
I pick up on a variety of posters and yes there are some where it happens more frequently; that is about the style of post/content not the poster!
I am not the only one who shows awareness of unfortunate posting to upset posters looking for advice, and am glad that there are others who also pick up on unkindness etc. Generally I do not get any impression that here is any kind of deliberate focus on any individual but I may be wrong or have missed that
Is there such a thing as delicious ready meals?
Shall we reboot our cartoons thread again? 😁